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I'm so tired of being lonely...feel like running away
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<blockquote data-quote="DDD" data-source="post: 478427" data-attributes="member: 35"><p>Hugs. MWM. I have a little different perspective on your post. I do understand what you are saying. on the other hand, I think you are going through a natural series of emotions that many many Moms face...even those who are extroverted. in my humble opinion you have just realized this year that your life is changing and before long you will no longer be "needed" on an hourly basis to parent. Jumper's slowly moving toward more independent living and I believe you are mourning in advance because you've realized that in the future you will be leading a different lifestyle. Even though it is sad and scarey I think it is a good thing to be experiencing those emotions now. </p><p></p><p>Allowing yourself to "feel the future" at this time means you can take your time preparing for the next stage of your life. All the ideas shared by CD family members are good ones. Take your time exploring what "you" might enjoy. You can't stop the changes from happening but you can incorporate one idea or activity that will help you get in touch with yourself...not the Mom self...but your real self so the future will have an additional focus. The "empty nest syndrome" is real. Alot of us miss our adult kids and wish they were closer geographically and emotionally. You're a step ahead because you won't be blindsided. by the way, it is also "normal" to see your husband in a different light at this time because almost all of us don't stay intimately in sync with our husband's. Life revolves around the kids and then when they are around less you look at your spouse and think "who to heck am I married to?"</p><p></p><p>I'm sending big understanding hugs your way. Take your time and I am positive you will find a path that enhances your life. DDD</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DDD, post: 478427, member: 35"] Hugs. MWM. I have a little different perspective on your post. I do understand what you are saying. on the other hand, I think you are going through a natural series of emotions that many many Moms face...even those who are extroverted. in my humble opinion you have just realized this year that your life is changing and before long you will no longer be "needed" on an hourly basis to parent. Jumper's slowly moving toward more independent living and I believe you are mourning in advance because you've realized that in the future you will be leading a different lifestyle. Even though it is sad and scarey I think it is a good thing to be experiencing those emotions now. Allowing yourself to "feel the future" at this time means you can take your time preparing for the next stage of your life. All the ideas shared by CD family members are good ones. Take your time exploring what "you" might enjoy. You can't stop the changes from happening but you can incorporate one idea or activity that will help you get in touch with yourself...not the Mom self...but your real self so the future will have an additional focus. The "empty nest syndrome" is real. Alot of us miss our adult kids and wish they were closer geographically and emotionally. You're a step ahead because you won't be blindsided. by the way, it is also "normal" to see your husband in a different light at this time because almost all of us don't stay intimately in sync with our husband's. Life revolves around the kids and then when they are around less you look at your spouse and think "who to heck am I married to?" I'm sending big understanding hugs your way. Take your time and I am positive you will find a path that enhances your life. DDD [/QUOTE]
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