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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 491497" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>It's ok- just like I mentioned on another member's thread, this helps us moms who are struggling with decisions know that we aren't nuts for stressing over these decisions. Speaking just for myself, sometimes I tell myself it should be a no-brainer. But then it's not. I've even had an attny tell me there'd be no way he should come back and another tell me he should and another tell me it's a big struggle. But PO and his super, on the other hand, were writing the parole plan without even looking at the file or knowing the hx or that this was difficult child's 2nd commitment. And then I'm criticized by them for not having faith in them or believeing in 'the help' their providers can offer? Yeah, right. OK, we could do 'time' with these people- if difficult child and I can hold it together and keep viewing it that way. There just seem to be so many variables. If it was a situation where my son was at risked for getting high, as bad as that sounds, it would be a no-brainer. </p><p></p><p>And what the hecfk is it with these csu people not being able to learn from the hx of what happened before? They all want to start from scratch. If they contacted difficult child's PO from last year, I'm pretty sure he'd tell them something different.</p><p></p><p>I don't know- I'll keep an eye on others' opinions about it- really, it does help me.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 491497, member: 3699"] It's ok- just like I mentioned on another member's thread, this helps us moms who are struggling with decisions know that we aren't nuts for stressing over these decisions. Speaking just for myself, sometimes I tell myself it should be a no-brainer. But then it's not. I've even had an attny tell me there'd be no way he should come back and another tell me he should and another tell me it's a big struggle. But PO and his super, on the other hand, were writing the parole plan without even looking at the file or knowing the hx or that this was difficult child's 2nd commitment. And then I'm criticized by them for not having faith in them or believeing in 'the help' their providers can offer? Yeah, right. OK, we could do 'time' with these people- if difficult child and I can hold it together and keep viewing it that way. There just seem to be so many variables. If it was a situation where my son was at risked for getting high, as bad as that sounds, it would be a no-brainer. And what the hecfk is it with these csu people not being able to learn from the hx of what happened before? They all want to start from scratch. If they contacted difficult child's PO from last year, I'm pretty sure he'd tell them something different. I don't know- I'll keep an eye on others' opinions about it- really, it does help me. [/QUOTE]
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