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<blockquote data-quote="DaisyFace" data-source="post: 491502" data-attributes="member: 6546"><p>K--</p><p></p><p>I think the answer lies within your own confidence to deal with difficult child in a dangerous situation. It is possible that your son is no longer any danger to you. That would be nice, wouldn't it? But what would it take to make you feel like you could handle it even if he w<em>as </em>dangerous?</p><p></p><p>If you would be in constant fear...sleeping with one eye open...always waiting for that "shoe" to drop - then NO, your son should not come home under any circumstances.</p><p></p><p>If, however, you feel that you have some plan that works and makes you feel comfortable having your son in your home - then bring him home and deal with the PO's baloney as best you can.</p><p></p><p>As for what kind of plan you would need to make you feel safe? Only you can say... Deadbolts? Security cameras? A close neighbor you could call at any moment? One of those "panic buttons" you wear around your neck?</p><p></p><p>If there is absolutely nothing that would make you feel safe and secure in your own home with your son around - then HE SHOULD NOT COME HOME.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DaisyFace, post: 491502, member: 6546"] K-- I think the answer lies within your own confidence to deal with difficult child in a dangerous situation. It is possible that your son is no longer any danger to you. That would be nice, wouldn't it? But what would it take to make you feel like you could handle it even if he w[I]as [/I]dangerous? If you would be in constant fear...sleeping with one eye open...always waiting for that "shoe" to drop - then NO, your son should not come home under any circumstances. If, however, you feel that you have some plan that works and makes you feel comfortable having your son in your home - then bring him home and deal with the PO's baloney as best you can. As for what kind of plan you would need to make you feel safe? Only you can say... Deadbolts? Security cameras? A close neighbor you could call at any moment? One of those "panic buttons" you wear around your neck? If there is absolutely nothing that would make you feel safe and secure in your own home with your son around - then HE SHOULD NOT COME HOME. [/QUOTE]
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