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<blockquote data-quote="TeDo" data-source="post: 491519"><p>Klmno, I know this has to be hard. Like it's already been said, YOU need to feel 100% safe 100% of the time in your own home and if he doesn't already know how much you've fought for him after all this time, he never will. As for telling him, you could say something like "I have really thought long and hard about this and I realize I am still scared of you. I love you with all my heart but I just don't trust that you won't hurt me again and for my own sanity and safety, I just can't have you come back home." I am so sorry you are having to make this choice and I hope I never have to face that one, but ultimately, how do you think he'd feel if you allowed him to come home and he snapped again and permanently maimed or killed you?</p><p></p><p>{{{{(((HUGS)))}}}} to you no matter what you decide.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="TeDo, post: 491519"] Klmno, I know this has to be hard. Like it's already been said, YOU need to feel 100% safe 100% of the time in your own home and if he doesn't already know how much you've fought for him after all this time, he never will. As for telling him, you could say something like "I have really thought long and hard about this and I realize I am still scared of you. I love you with all my heart but I just don't trust that you won't hurt me again and for my own sanity and safety, I just can't have you come back home." I am so sorry you are having to make this choice and I hope I never have to face that one, but ultimately, how do you think he'd feel if you allowed him to come home and he snapped again and permanently maimed or killed you? {{{{(((HUGS)))}}}} to you no matter what you decide. [/QUOTE]
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