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<blockquote data-quote="DaisyFace" data-source="post: 576621" data-attributes="member: 6546"><p>Exactly!</p><p></p><p>My refrigerator is covered with pictures and crafts and gifts from both my kids when they were very little. There are cut-outs of their hands and first Valentine's cards - things that are just too precious to put away in box. </p><p></p><p>difficult child cannot see that any of her items are on that fridge. She tells anyone who will listen that I have kept everything from DS and nothing from her - because I don't love her! When a behavior therapist in our home confronted me on this - wanting me to think about how that must make poor difficult child feel - I literally dragged that woman to my fridge and showed her all of the items that belong to difficult child. </p><p></p><p>Therapist then confronted difficult child - who didn't seem to realize that I had all of those items. She just knew that I would not have kept anything SHE made.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DaisyFace, post: 576621, member: 6546"] Exactly! My refrigerator is covered with pictures and crafts and gifts from both my kids when they were very little. There are cut-outs of their hands and first Valentine's cards - things that are just too precious to put away in box. difficult child cannot see that any of her items are on that fridge. She tells anyone who will listen that I have kept everything from DS and nothing from her - because I don't love her! When a behavior therapist in our home confronted me on this - wanting me to think about how that must make poor difficult child feel - I literally dragged that woman to my fridge and showed her all of the items that belong to difficult child. Therapist then confronted difficult child - who didn't seem to realize that I had all of those items. She just knew that I would not have kept anything SHE made. [/QUOTE]
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