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<blockquote data-quote="Scent of Cedar *" data-source="post: 665746" data-attributes="member: 17461"><p>The psychiatrist has a vested interest in keeping you undermined, Copa. </p><p></p><p>I think you are wise and courageous.</p><p></p><p>It sounds as though this session went well. You were very brave. Remember this man has been trained to keep patients, well...patients. </p><p></p><p>You are seeing you through his eyes I think, Copa.</p><p></p><p>How do <em>you </em>think<em> he</em> handled this last session?</p><p></p><p>What words from him would have left you feeling stronger, today?</p><p></p><p>That is what matters here, Copa. </p><p></p><p>What do you wish you had heard him say?</p><p></p><p>We are not yet in the habit of kindness to ourselves, or of trusting ourselves or of believing we are meant to heal. This will come for us in time, this understanding that we are <em>meant</em> to love and be loved; and we are meant to be very, very happy.</p><p></p><p>These other sad years have been a mistake.</p><p></p><p>We are healing.</p><p></p><p>It was time to let the psychiatrist go. </p><p></p><p>Good job.</p><p></p><p><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/hugs.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":hugs:" title="hugs :hugs:" data-shortname=":hugs:" /></p><p></p><p>You are brave and strong.</p><p></p><p>And we are right here.</p><p></p><p><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/choir.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":choir:" title="choir :choir:" data-shortname=":choir:" /></p><p></p><p></p><p>I wholeheartedly agree with Serenity and IC that a woman therapist, someone committed to DBT, will find you growing stronger and more centered than the psychiatrist was able to accomplish.</p><p></p><p>I was more able to trust in a group therapy setting.</p><p></p><p>All women; no men.</p><p></p><p>You can do this, Copa. You never needed the psychiatrist. </p><p></p><p>Cedar</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Scent of Cedar *, post: 665746, member: 17461"] The psychiatrist has a vested interest in keeping you undermined, Copa. I think you are wise and courageous. It sounds as though this session went well. You were very brave. Remember this man has been trained to keep patients, well...patients. You are seeing you through his eyes I think, Copa. How do [I]you [/I]think[I] he[/I] handled this last session? What words from him would have left you feeling stronger, today? That is what matters here, Copa. What do you wish you had heard him say? We are not yet in the habit of kindness to ourselves, or of trusting ourselves or of believing we are meant to heal. This will come for us in time, this understanding that we are [I]meant[/I] to love and be loved; and we are meant to be very, very happy. These other sad years have been a mistake. We are healing. It was time to let the psychiatrist go. Good job. :hugs: You are brave and strong. And we are right here. :choir: I wholeheartedly agree with Serenity and IC that a woman therapist, someone committed to DBT, will find you growing stronger and more centered than the psychiatrist was able to accomplish. I was more able to trust in a group therapy setting. All women; no men. You can do this, Copa. You never needed the psychiatrist. Cedar [/QUOTE]
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