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In a totally new place and need perspective? Cedar? Anyone?
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<blockquote data-quote="Scent of Cedar *" data-source="post: 666335" data-attributes="member: 17461"><p>I think there is no way to do that. Something nasty did happen. </p><p></p><p>It helps me, when I feel that smallness, to repeat that prayer I just found.</p><p></p><p><em>Pray for their peace and therein, find our own.</em></p><p></p><p>It does help me to do that, Copa. I can let go of it, of the hurt and confusion of it, when I remember to say that prayer.</p><p></p><p>It's like, we get it that we have been hurt. We get it, that what happened was unfair ~ we really do get it, down in the heart of us, that it should never have happened ~ not to us, and not to anyone. We admit it feels just awful to know that is what happened to us. That the other guy really did mean to do what he did. That there is no fixing any of it.</p><p></p><p>Saying that little prayer about their peace seems to refocus me, seems to bring me back to center, maybe.</p><p></p><p>It's sad that happened to you, Copa.</p><p></p><p>I'm so sorry.</p><p></p><p>Cedar</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Scent of Cedar *, post: 666335, member: 17461"] I think there is no way to do that. Something nasty did happen. It helps me, when I feel that smallness, to repeat that prayer I just found. [I]Pray for their peace and therein, find our own.[/I] It does help me to do that, Copa. I can let go of it, of the hurt and confusion of it, when I remember to say that prayer. It's like, we get it that we have been hurt. We get it, that what happened was unfair ~ we really do get it, down in the heart of us, that it should never have happened ~ not to us, and not to anyone. We admit it feels just awful to know that is what happened to us. That the other guy really did mean to do what he did. That there is no fixing any of it. Saying that little prayer about their peace seems to refocus me, seems to bring me back to center, maybe. It's sad that happened to you, Copa. I'm so sorry. Cedar [/QUOTE]
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