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In a totally new place and need perspective? Cedar? Anyone?
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<blockquote data-quote="Scent of Cedar *" data-source="post: 666469" data-attributes="member: 17461"><p>I feel this as well, Copa and Serenity.</p><p></p><p>Exclusionary policies, toxic labeling; unpleasant behaviors surprisingly beyond the furthest pale of decency and everything excused with: "That's just my mom; that's just my sister.</p><p></p><p>Crying at the drop of a pin <em>but watching me while her eyes fill with tears</em>.</p><p></p><p>There is a rising awareness now of my discomfort in interacting with either my mom or my sister. Was it a sense of guilt at the discomfort of interacting with them that we reacted from? Why was I (and maybe, I still am) so afraid of them, so afraid of what they would say?</p><p></p><p>Once we unravel that, we will be free of the sisters.</p><p></p><p>That will be very nice.</p><p></p><p>I wonder how it was that everything turned out this way. </p><p></p><p>***</p><p></p><p>D H will be happy to know you are still out of bed, Copa.</p><p></p><p>:O)</p><p></p><p>Cedar</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Scent of Cedar *, post: 666469, member: 17461"] I feel this as well, Copa and Serenity. Exclusionary policies, toxic labeling; unpleasant behaviors surprisingly beyond the furthest pale of decency and everything excused with: "That's just my mom; that's just my sister. Crying at the drop of a pin [I]but watching me while her eyes fill with tears[/I]. There is a rising awareness now of my discomfort in interacting with either my mom or my sister. Was it a sense of guilt at the discomfort of interacting with them that we reacted from? Why was I (and maybe, I still am) so afraid of them, so afraid of what they would say? Once we unravel that, we will be free of the sisters. That will be very nice. I wonder how it was that everything turned out this way. *** D H will be happy to know you are still out of bed, Copa. :O) Cedar [/QUOTE]
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