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<blockquote data-quote="SuZir" data-source="post: 575638" data-attributes="member: 14557"><p>Okay, I don't have a daughter. I do have a teenage goddaughter though. She is a good girl. Good grades, driven, nice friends, good hobbies, typical teen at home. Her way of rebelling and exploring is very over the top sexy/cheap looks. Her parents have drawn a line to tats and piercings that would leave a noticeable scar. Hair, the mother tries to like her funky styles; make up, that washes away; clothing, well don't get arrested of public indecency or freeze yourself. They do demand her to wear appropriate clothes to certain functions, but other than that it's her choice. If she chooses to show skin and look silly, that is her problem and as a natural consequences she will be very embarrassed of her old photos in few years. But other than that, skanky dress is not harming anyone.</p><p></p><p>I understand her parents. There are more important things and these choices, while not stylish, are not harmful. And she will grow out of them.</p><p></p><p>Of course we live in different culture with different taboos. Nakedness is not taboo over here. We just see that thing totally differently. I would have no real problem for example seeing any of my neighbours naked or have a problem if they saw me. Of course it could be slightly uncomfortable if for example some strange man would walk in with me sunbathing naked in my garden, but only that. Skin is skin, it isn't much different if it is on your nose, on your nipple or between your legs. And if you discount some weirder deformations no one really has anything that everyone wouldn't had seen hundreds of times before.</p><p></p><p>And with the black thing. Well I live middle of about few million women who stongly think one can not wear anything else but black. If we get really wild, we may consider white (shirt) or maybe even dark brown (in our shoes.)</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SuZir, post: 575638, member: 14557"] Okay, I don't have a daughter. I do have a teenage goddaughter though. She is a good girl. Good grades, driven, nice friends, good hobbies, typical teen at home. Her way of rebelling and exploring is very over the top sexy/cheap looks. Her parents have drawn a line to tats and piercings that would leave a noticeable scar. Hair, the mother tries to like her funky styles; make up, that washes away; clothing, well don't get arrested of public indecency or freeze yourself. They do demand her to wear appropriate clothes to certain functions, but other than that it's her choice. If she chooses to show skin and look silly, that is her problem and as a natural consequences she will be very embarrassed of her old photos in few years. But other than that, skanky dress is not harming anyone. I understand her parents. There are more important things and these choices, while not stylish, are not harmful. And she will grow out of them. Of course we live in different culture with different taboos. Nakedness is not taboo over here. We just see that thing totally differently. I would have no real problem for example seeing any of my neighbours naked or have a problem if they saw me. Of course it could be slightly uncomfortable if for example some strange man would walk in with me sunbathing naked in my garden, but only that. Skin is skin, it isn't much different if it is on your nose, on your nipple or between your legs. And if you discount some weirder deformations no one really has anything that everyone wouldn't had seen hundreds of times before. And with the black thing. Well I live middle of about few million women who stongly think one can not wear anything else but black. If we get really wild, we may consider white (shirt) or maybe even dark brown (in our shoes.) [/QUOTE]
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