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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 470021" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>Well this supports my theory that the biggest problem with the difficult children we have (not all difficult child's on the board) is that we parents aren't getting the backup we need. How much more effective is it for a retired cop to back up and support you and husband than to use the mst behavior chart where you bargain safety and legal behavior requirements?</p><p></p><p>I can't even address why no one called CPS- but I'm glad they didn't in your case. I really don't think anymore that the problem is lack of funding for these agencies- it's wasting the funding they do have that's the problem. They're too busy buying into bogus, ineffective methods, hiring incompetent people who are convinced it's all the parents' fault and believe themselves that the difficult child is entitled to almost everything then blame the parent for the kid feeling and acting entitled, and most importantly, using funding for our kids to really set up ways to train new, inexperienced and young people. What's the worst is that 9 times out of 10, the people doing the training are people who started out like these newbies and after a year or so, turned into supers who are now 'leading' the other newbies.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 470021, member: 3699"] Well this supports my theory that the biggest problem with the difficult children we have (not all difficult child's on the board) is that we parents aren't getting the backup we need. How much more effective is it for a retired cop to back up and support you and husband than to use the mst behavior chart where you bargain safety and legal behavior requirements? I can't even address why no one called CPS- but I'm glad they didn't in your case. I really don't think anymore that the problem is lack of funding for these agencies- it's wasting the funding they do have that's the problem. They're too busy buying into bogus, ineffective methods, hiring incompetent people who are convinced it's all the parents' fault and believe themselves that the difficult child is entitled to almost everything then blame the parent for the kid feeling and acting entitled, and most importantly, using funding for our kids to really set up ways to train new, inexperienced and young people. What's the worst is that 9 times out of 10, the people doing the training are people who started out like these newbies and after a year or so, turned into supers who are now 'leading' the other newbies. [/QUOTE]
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