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<blockquote data-quote="trouble" data-source="post: 433984" data-attributes="member: 12116"><p>Well... how do you figure out whether the "experts" are getting the whole story? Am I over-reacting? or, is he SO good at covering up that THEY are missing something? </p><p> </p><p>14yo boy. Limited computer access. Highly gullible. Desperate for "friendship". We're getting the impression that he'll do whatever it takes to fit in...</p><p> </p><p>Involved in accessing extreme internet porn - bondage, cruelty, rape, etc. Started last winter. School had to shut down his computer there, and we've been dealing with tdocs etc. ever since. THEY see it as rebellion against overly strict standards at home - we see it as a twisted perversion that will explode at some point if it isn't modified, but it will take highly specialized resources to do that and we don't have access...</p><p> </p><p>Now, he's at it again - on MY computer. With sister sitting around the corner, and me coming and going at random. Supposed to be doing on-line homework (&^%$#$#$@@) stupid schools - why do they have to use ON-LINE resources and <strong>require</strong> us to do this from home? (school here has extensive, expensive firewalls - stuff normal people can't afford to buy and maintain - but there isn't enough class time to do the work - its assigned as homework)</p><p> </p><p>We know what triggers it... a screw-you attitude that happens whenever things don't go the way he wants them to go, especially if it happens when he is tired and stressed. Was researching some potential social groups for him, but the one he really wants requires a time commitment that he cannot make (limitations due to disability...) - and thats the ONLY one he wants.</p><p> </p><p>sigh.</p><p> </p><p>But mostly, worried about whether its really rebellion, or if it is a sexual perversion that will put others at risk (including younger sister).</p><p> </p><p>Feedback?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="trouble, post: 433984, member: 12116"] Well... how do you figure out whether the "experts" are getting the whole story? Am I over-reacting? or, is he SO good at covering up that THEY are missing something? 14yo boy. Limited computer access. Highly gullible. Desperate for "friendship". We're getting the impression that he'll do whatever it takes to fit in... Involved in accessing extreme internet porn - bondage, cruelty, rape, etc. Started last winter. School had to shut down his computer there, and we've been dealing with tdocs etc. ever since. THEY see it as rebellion against overly strict standards at home - we see it as a twisted perversion that will explode at some point if it isn't modified, but it will take highly specialized resources to do that and we don't have access... Now, he's at it again - on MY computer. With sister sitting around the corner, and me coming and going at random. Supposed to be doing on-line homework (&^%$#$#$@@) stupid schools - why do they have to use ON-LINE resources and [B]require[/B] us to do this from home? (school here has extensive, expensive firewalls - stuff normal people can't afford to buy and maintain - but there isn't enough class time to do the work - its assigned as homework) We know what triggers it... a screw-you attitude that happens whenever things don't go the way he wants them to go, especially if it happens when he is tired and stressed. Was researching some potential social groups for him, but the one he really wants requires a time commitment that he cannot make (limitations due to disability...) - and thats the ONLY one he wants. sigh. But mostly, worried about whether its really rebellion, or if it is a sexual perversion that will put others at risk (including younger sister). Feedback? [/QUOTE]
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