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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 434096" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>JJJ is right. I forgot to mention that. Make a written safety plan for her that includes not having her in a room with him unless an adult is actually in the room. It is a hassle, but it may save you a world of hurt/grief and hassles from CPS. It iwll show CPS, when/if they ever get involved, that you are doing all you can to keep everyone safe. It is to protect her AND protect him from allegations that are not true. It is EASY to make a child believe that something happened when it didn't. Just ask the question four or five times - eventually you will get what the child thinks you want to hear. </p><p></p><p>If he truly IS doing this when he is angry at you, it is just a very very short step from seeking out images to acting them out with his sister or another child to anger you. It will be learning to use sexual behavior to control people - exactly the WRONG lesson for anyone. a very dangerous lesson that will be incredibly hard to unlearn. I have a sib who tried this, and it can be terribly effective even if it is just a threat. It is a hugely difficult thing to handle from a parent's standpoint - IF you actually findo ut about it. Often worse is threatened if the child tells and they believe it. It is a reason to put the video/audio in her room.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 434096, member: 1233"] JJJ is right. I forgot to mention that. Make a written safety plan for her that includes not having her in a room with him unless an adult is actually in the room. It is a hassle, but it may save you a world of hurt/grief and hassles from CPS. It iwll show CPS, when/if they ever get involved, that you are doing all you can to keep everyone safe. It is to protect her AND protect him from allegations that are not true. It is EASY to make a child believe that something happened when it didn't. Just ask the question four or five times - eventually you will get what the child thinks you want to hear. If he truly IS doing this when he is angry at you, it is just a very very short step from seeking out images to acting them out with his sister or another child to anger you. It will be learning to use sexual behavior to control people - exactly the WRONG lesson for anyone. a very dangerous lesson that will be incredibly hard to unlearn. I have a sib who tried this, and it can be terribly effective even if it is just a threat. It is a hugely difficult thing to handle from a parent's standpoint - IF you actually findo ut about it. Often worse is threatened if the child tells and they believe it. It is a reason to put the video/audio in her room. [/QUOTE]
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