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<blockquote data-quote="keista" data-source="post: 434103" data-attributes="member: 11965"><p>First, I am shocked, appalled, speechless, furious, whatever, that the school is being so 'calm' about this issue. Viewing/possessing porn by minors is ILLEGAL. End of story. Does not matter what type it is, it is illegal. What makes this more crazy is hearing reports from other schools where a semi nude picture is taken of a student, it runs viral on cell phones, and the last student to receive it (even though they didn't want to) reports it, gets in trouble.</p><p></p><p>Second, ALL boys search out porn in one way shape or form. Many girls as well. Anyone remember National Geographic magazines? Most is a natural healthy curiosity. My son came and confessed to me that he searched it out on the internet. We had a long talk about the legal issues, the danger of becoming 'immune' or 'anesthetized' from over exposure, and of course the possibility, that he would stumble across images that he did NOT want to see but since it was a stumble he already saw it, and it can haunt you for a long time. been there done that myself.</p><p></p><p>Third, do you know for sure that he is viewing these images and fantasizing from the perspective of the perpetrator? We don't have a profile on your son (diagnosis, medications, previous issues) and while it's possible that he's 'turned on' by the control and violence of these images, it is just as possible that he may be fantasizing from the victim's perspective. A virtual form of 'cutting'</p><p></p><p>There is a very large, and due to the internet, more open counterculture of sexual deviations - not all are based in cruelty and violence even though at first glance they may appear to be. It's also a spectrum from light 'kinky' play to OMG what are you thinking? You're really ALLOWING him/her to do that? But it is <strong>mutually</strong> agreed upon behavior. Again, think 'cutting' where a person cuts themselves to feel better. Doesn't make it normal, but it does feed some psychological need for both parties.</p><p></p><p>Lastly, I think your tdocs are CRAZY can you find others? Try as I might, I cannot think about this situation "as rebellion against overly strict standards at home" It's a natural curiosity that has gone awry, been twisted to some form of 'deviant' sexual thinking/fantasizing. Legally we must curb that natural curiosity (I got Victoria Secrets catalogs and left them lying around), but that deviation should be address ESPECIALLY if it is, as you suspect, one of cruelty and violence.</p><p></p><p>I would take precautions, as mentioned above, You can also put keylogging software on your computer so you can track everything he does (if you ever allow him access again)</p><p></p><p>God Luck.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="keista, post: 434103, member: 11965"] First, I am shocked, appalled, speechless, furious, whatever, that the school is being so 'calm' about this issue. Viewing/possessing porn by minors is ILLEGAL. End of story. Does not matter what type it is, it is illegal. What makes this more crazy is hearing reports from other schools where a semi nude picture is taken of a student, it runs viral on cell phones, and the last student to receive it (even though they didn't want to) reports it, gets in trouble. Second, ALL boys search out porn in one way shape or form. Many girls as well. Anyone remember National Geographic magazines? Most is a natural healthy curiosity. My son came and confessed to me that he searched it out on the internet. We had a long talk about the legal issues, the danger of becoming 'immune' or 'anesthetized' from over exposure, and of course the possibility, that he would stumble across images that he did NOT want to see but since it was a stumble he already saw it, and it can haunt you for a long time. been there done that myself. Third, do you know for sure that he is viewing these images and fantasizing from the perspective of the perpetrator? We don't have a profile on your son (diagnosis, medications, previous issues) and while it's possible that he's 'turned on' by the control and violence of these images, it is just as possible that he may be fantasizing from the victim's perspective. A virtual form of 'cutting' There is a very large, and due to the internet, more open counterculture of sexual deviations - not all are based in cruelty and violence even though at first glance they may appear to be. It's also a spectrum from light 'kinky' play to OMG what are you thinking? You're really ALLOWING him/her to do that? But it is [B]mutually[/B] agreed upon behavior. Again, think 'cutting' where a person cuts themselves to feel better. Doesn't make it normal, but it does feed some psychological need for both parties. Lastly, I think your tdocs are CRAZY can you find others? Try as I might, I cannot think about this situation "as rebellion against overly strict standards at home" It's a natural curiosity that has gone awry, been twisted to some form of 'deviant' sexual thinking/fantasizing. Legally we must curb that natural curiosity (I got Victoria Secrets catalogs and left them lying around), but that deviation should be address ESPECIALLY if it is, as you suspect, one of cruelty and violence. I would take precautions, as mentioned above, You can also put keylogging software on your computer so you can track everything he does (if you ever allow him access again) God Luck. [/QUOTE]
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