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<blockquote data-quote="trouble" data-source="post: 434214" data-attributes="member: 12116"><p>diagnosis: Adhd-combined, with extreme executive function issues, anxiety (not otherwise specified), motor coordination and sensory issues, ODD (of course), dysgraphia, major delays in social skills, severe fatigue</p><p> </p><p>In practical terms: no practical handwriting skills, so relies on computer for school work - but only got that about a year ago (should have had years ago). So, he has no idea what the limits are, or how to properly use this tool (organizing files, when to use what program, when to have the computer on or off, privacy, etc.), etc. Original set-up was with WIFI - for printing, saving files to network, etc., but that automatically includes internet - we fought unsuccessfully for non-WIFI solutions but were told "this is the way its done" (we were concerned about the distraction of the internet...) This means that "no computer" is not an option.</p><p> </p><p>Still trying to track down source of fatigue, but its the major cause of social delays... lack of experience. Its also what puts the kybosh on most multi-age activities... they run from 7-9 or 6-9... and he's "dead" by 7:30, can stretch to 8 max. Sports are not an option - coordination issues. So its community band, scouts, etc. would be possible options - except, they go too late at night, and/or include weekend trips - both of which multiply his fatigue really fast and make the rest of his life fall apart. HE would rather be involved in these things and let the rest of his life fall apart, 'cause its a mess anyway.</p><p> </p><p>I'm a computer techie - and I still can't lock the system down good enough. It would take about $5000 to put together a reasonably secure system - and then about 20 hours per month to maintain it.</p><p> </p><p>They finally took internet off the school computer - after he used public wifi and borrowed non-school network connections to download forbidden materials... which then made it so the computer didn't work for school either. He found a work-around so both would work again (school and internet), and of course got slammed for doing that as well. So now he doesn't want to use the computer at all - and is getting almost nothing done at school.</p><p> </p><p>School work requires internet... SmartMusic, music theory - for a minimum, these require live internet connection. School gets around the "unfair" aspect by having a few computers available to run this stuff, but no where near the number necessary - so, if you don't have a computer, you either have to be at school at 7:30, or you're out of luck...</p><p> </p><p>Its a classic catch-22... the usual solutions for any one of his issues, runs into the brick wall of one or more OTHER issues... and we've been doing this since Kindergarten!</p><p> </p><p>Therapists - NO options. You take what you get (this is NOT America!). Male therapists? rarer than hens teeth. He's been in therapy for 3 yrs, zero impact - he simply refuses to engage - and that was BEFORE we hit THIS stuff.</p><p> </p><p>He did tell one psychiatrist that he did it because other kids set him up - he was trying to get their approval. Maybe. But this week??? not likely.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="trouble, post: 434214, member: 12116"] diagnosis: Adhd-combined, with extreme executive function issues, anxiety (not otherwise specified), motor coordination and sensory issues, ODD (of course), dysgraphia, major delays in social skills, severe fatigue In practical terms: no practical handwriting skills, so relies on computer for school work - but only got that about a year ago (should have had years ago). So, he has no idea what the limits are, or how to properly use this tool (organizing files, when to use what program, when to have the computer on or off, privacy, etc.), etc. Original set-up was with WIFI - for printing, saving files to network, etc., but that automatically includes internet - we fought unsuccessfully for non-WIFI solutions but were told "this is the way its done" (we were concerned about the distraction of the internet...) This means that "no computer" is not an option. Still trying to track down source of fatigue, but its the major cause of social delays... lack of experience. Its also what puts the kybosh on most multi-age activities... they run from 7-9 or 6-9... and he's "dead" by 7:30, can stretch to 8 max. Sports are not an option - coordination issues. So its community band, scouts, etc. would be possible options - except, they go too late at night, and/or include weekend trips - both of which multiply his fatigue really fast and make the rest of his life fall apart. HE would rather be involved in these things and let the rest of his life fall apart, 'cause its a mess anyway. I'm a computer techie - and I still can't lock the system down good enough. It would take about $5000 to put together a reasonably secure system - and then about 20 hours per month to maintain it. They finally took internet off the school computer - after he used public wifi and borrowed non-school network connections to download forbidden materials... which then made it so the computer didn't work for school either. He found a work-around so both would work again (school and internet), and of course got slammed for doing that as well. So now he doesn't want to use the computer at all - and is getting almost nothing done at school. School work requires internet... SmartMusic, music theory - for a minimum, these require live internet connection. School gets around the "unfair" aspect by having a few computers available to run this stuff, but no where near the number necessary - so, if you don't have a computer, you either have to be at school at 7:30, or you're out of luck... Its a classic catch-22... the usual solutions for any one of his issues, runs into the brick wall of one or more OTHER issues... and we've been doing this since Kindergarten! Therapists - NO options. You take what you get (this is NOT America!). Male therapists? rarer than hens teeth. He's been in therapy for 3 yrs, zero impact - he simply refuses to engage - and that was BEFORE we hit THIS stuff. He did tell one psychiatrist that he did it because other kids set him up - he was trying to get their approval. Maybe. But this week??? not likely. [/QUOTE]
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