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<blockquote data-quote="rejectedmom" data-source="post: 434390" data-attributes="member: 2315"><p>Terry and JJJ have some good practical advice. As for my imput on this subject it is as follows: There is always a natural curiosity about sex that is to be expected. And a mild amout of titulation is probably ok. However as one who knows someone who became addicted to porn, I will say that it is insidious and acts on the body just like any other drug. Viewing porn raises sex related hormone levels within the viewer's body and because of that physiological effect, anyone with a propensity to addiction can get sucked in. Just like a runner can become addicted to the endorphines and run themselves to death a person who is addicted to porn can ruin their life and the lives of those they love. </p><p> </p><p>The person I knew was a well educated professional of great renown within his field. He ended up spending over $10,000 on prostitutes in one year's time and contracted a horrid case of scabies. That is how his wife found out. But even after that he could not stop himself. His wife took away all his credit cards and put him on a very short leash and then found a place that treated this type of addiction. (this was before Clinton made this kind of addiction public knowledge) My friends then spent $20,000 on a residential program and thousands more on follow-up therapy that lasted over three years to gain back control of his life. They did this all out of pocket because it was not a recognized problem by insurance companies back then. </p><p> </p><p>His wife of 24 years stayed with him but she admits that she will never trust him fully again and always uses a condom when they have sex for fear of contracting a STD. He admitted to viewing this garbage as a youngster having fished it out of a neighbors trash and had viewed it whenever he could thereafter. From magazines he had esculated to phone sex and watched PPV movies after his wife went to bed. He payed the bills so she only found out after the fact, With the comming of home computers and easy access to the stuff online he was quickly and easily out of control. </p><p> </p><p>So besides the psycological factors that viewing this extreme stuff can have on vulnerable youths and the distortion of sex and the objectifying of women, there are other factors to consider in all this. </p><p> </p><p>I am anything but a prude but I am a big proponent of a porn free lifestyle all the same. There are many healthy pastimes that can make a person feel good. Next time you catch him at it, have him go help out at the local food pantry or ASPCA or something else worthwhile instead. -RM</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="rejectedmom, post: 434390, member: 2315"] Terry and JJJ have some good practical advice. As for my imput on this subject it is as follows: There is always a natural curiosity about sex that is to be expected. And a mild amout of titulation is probably ok. However as one who knows someone who became addicted to porn, I will say that it is insidious and acts on the body just like any other drug. Viewing porn raises sex related hormone levels within the viewer's body and because of that physiological effect, anyone with a propensity to addiction can get sucked in. Just like a runner can become addicted to the endorphines and run themselves to death a person who is addicted to porn can ruin their life and the lives of those they love. The person I knew was a well educated professional of great renown within his field. He ended up spending over $10,000 on prostitutes in one year's time and contracted a horrid case of scabies. That is how his wife found out. But even after that he could not stop himself. His wife took away all his credit cards and put him on a very short leash and then found a place that treated this type of addiction. (this was before Clinton made this kind of addiction public knowledge) My friends then spent $20,000 on a residential program and thousands more on follow-up therapy that lasted over three years to gain back control of his life. They did this all out of pocket because it was not a recognized problem by insurance companies back then. His wife of 24 years stayed with him but she admits that she will never trust him fully again and always uses a condom when they have sex for fear of contracting a STD. He admitted to viewing this garbage as a youngster having fished it out of a neighbors trash and had viewed it whenever he could thereafter. From magazines he had esculated to phone sex and watched PPV movies after his wife went to bed. He payed the bills so she only found out after the fact, With the comming of home computers and easy access to the stuff online he was quickly and easily out of control. So besides the psycological factors that viewing this extreme stuff can have on vulnerable youths and the distortion of sex and the objectifying of women, there are other factors to consider in all this. I am anything but a prude but I am a big proponent of a porn free lifestyle all the same. There are many healthy pastimes that can make a person feel good. Next time you catch him at it, have him go help out at the local food pantry or ASPCA or something else worthwhile instead. -RM [/QUOTE]
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