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<blockquote data-quote="buddy" data-source="post: 474058" data-attributes="member: 12886"><p>For REAL!!!! I can't count the number of times I have said, written, cried.... I would be the FIRST one to tell you to suspend him, I would ground him more, threaten not to go places, take favorite toys away more.... etc. if it had ever shown a pattern of HELPING!!!! But even if one of these things has short term benefits, it ALWAYS increases overall anxiety and in terms of the big picture all things become more difficult. I WISH it was so easy. Of course we have tried and continue to try some of the typical parenting things. I get it there are parents out there who dont have a clue and maybe do mess kids up with poor parenting. I doubt those are the folks taht are on boards like this desperate for understanding and new ideas to try. (not that I think any of us thinks we are perfect or not in any need of new skills, just that the idea that typical discipline can really make much of a dent... or as I was told... to use more "meaningful" consequences....HUH???? Have you read even ONE report/article etc. I have given you about brain injury? I KNOW you all have gone to autism workshops, WTH????) Wow, am I in a PMS mood.... sorry, not the usual tone of my posts! It is really a hot button thing for me. Just sharing that I do understand, and in my humble opinion you have a right to feel frustrated by that kind of lazy answer.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="buddy, post: 474058, member: 12886"] For REAL!!!! I can't count the number of times I have said, written, cried.... I would be the FIRST one to tell you to suspend him, I would ground him more, threaten not to go places, take favorite toys away more.... etc. if it had ever shown a pattern of HELPING!!!! But even if one of these things has short term benefits, it ALWAYS increases overall anxiety and in terms of the big picture all things become more difficult. I WISH it was so easy. Of course we have tried and continue to try some of the typical parenting things. I get it there are parents out there who dont have a clue and maybe do mess kids up with poor parenting. I doubt those are the folks taht are on boards like this desperate for understanding and new ideas to try. (not that I think any of us thinks we are perfect or not in any need of new skills, just that the idea that typical discipline can really make much of a dent... or as I was told... to use more "meaningful" consequences....HUH???? Have you read even ONE report/article etc. I have given you about brain injury? I KNOW you all have gone to autism workshops, WTH????) Wow, am I in a PMS mood.... sorry, not the usual tone of my posts! It is really a hot button thing for me. Just sharing that I do understand, and in my humble opinion you have a right to feel frustrated by that kind of lazy answer. [/QUOTE]
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