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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 447029" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>Actually, you could use the girlfriend as his huge motivator. </p><p></p><p>Because I didn't want Travis to turn out like his dad (an aspie), I worked hard on coaching him as far as behaviors a female is likely not to put up with as well as those she'd appreciate. His dad got his teaching from me.......and by that time he was in his mid 30's and next to impossible to teach. I had to teach with actions, not words most of the time. Do unto him as he did unto me type thing to get the message across. </p><p></p><p>There have been times in the past that because Travis snitched a special treat of mine.......that when given the chance I returned the behavior in kind. When he was upset, I explained to him that now he knew how it felt. Often with both husband and Travis this works far better than words. For many many years boundaries were not something that Travis "got".</p><p></p><p>Been a long time since he last snitched one of my treats. lol</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 447029, member: 84"] Actually, you could use the girlfriend as his huge motivator. Because I didn't want Travis to turn out like his dad (an aspie), I worked hard on coaching him as far as behaviors a female is likely not to put up with as well as those she'd appreciate. His dad got his teaching from me.......and by that time he was in his mid 30's and next to impossible to teach. I had to teach with actions, not words most of the time. Do unto him as he did unto me type thing to get the message across. There have been times in the past that because Travis snitched a special treat of mine.......that when given the chance I returned the behavior in kind. When he was upset, I explained to him that now he knew how it felt. Often with both husband and Travis this works far better than words. For many many years boundaries were not something that Travis "got". Been a long time since he last snitched one of my treats. lol [/QUOTE]
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