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Is it morally right for us to kick our 19 yo son out of the house?
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<blockquote data-quote="recoveringenabler" data-source="post: 574703" data-attributes="member: 13542"><p>KIttycat, welcome. I think you found the right place to be. Many of us have been in your shoes. Read our stories, keep posting, it helps a lot. You sound as if you have made some difficult decisions based on your sons bad behavior. Decisions I know a lot about personally. It is devastatingly difficult, but also remarkably necessary. Your son will not launch into his own life as long as you enable his bad choices. You have a right to a peaceful and calm life, and so do your other children. I believe every step you've taken is a reasonable, well thought out very good choice. It's tough, no doubt about it, but you are on the right track. Stay strong, keep posting, if you haven't already, you might try to find a support group or a therapist for you and your husband, this takes an amazing toll on families and you need support too. I have needed a VILLAGE to keep me strong and for me to stay the course. I send you much empathy and understanding and many hugs. I wish you peace amidst the chaos.</p><p></p><p>Oh, you might read the article on detachment located at the bottom of my post here..........it helps.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="recoveringenabler, post: 574703, member: 13542"] KIttycat, welcome. I think you found the right place to be. Many of us have been in your shoes. Read our stories, keep posting, it helps a lot. You sound as if you have made some difficult decisions based on your sons bad behavior. Decisions I know a lot about personally. It is devastatingly difficult, but also remarkably necessary. Your son will not launch into his own life as long as you enable his bad choices. You have a right to a peaceful and calm life, and so do your other children. I believe every step you've taken is a reasonable, well thought out very good choice. It's tough, no doubt about it, but you are on the right track. Stay strong, keep posting, if you haven't already, you might try to find a support group or a therapist for you and your husband, this takes an amazing toll on families and you need support too. I have needed a VILLAGE to keep me strong and for me to stay the course. I send you much empathy and understanding and many hugs. I wish you peace amidst the chaos. Oh, you might read the article on detachment located at the bottom of my post here..........it helps. [/QUOTE]
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