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<blockquote data-quote="totoro" data-source="post: 324462" data-attributes="member: 3155"><p>I don't miss my Father now and I honestly don't think I will miss him when he passes. </p><p>I have a harder time explaining it to people like my mother in law and have pretty much just given up at this point in my life.</p><p>Even with my Mother's suicide I was only 9, but we had such a distant and weird relationship that I only missed what I thought a Mom should be. </p><p>That went away soon after and I have not really missed nor mourned her or a "Mom" type figure ever. </p><p>I feel sad that she suffered, I feel sad that she was so sick Mentally. But that is about it. </p><p>I have let go of the guilt and realized I have to let myself have my feelings regardless of if others think they are normal. </p><p></p><p>You have a right to feel however you do when ever the feelings come. </p><p>Try not to over analyze them and realize you have valid reasons for however you are feeling.</p><p></p><p>Hang in there, this a tough time despite who your Mother has been and is.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="totoro, post: 324462, member: 3155"] I don't miss my Father now and I honestly don't think I will miss him when he passes. I have a harder time explaining it to people like my mother in law and have pretty much just given up at this point in my life. Even with my Mother's suicide I was only 9, but we had such a distant and weird relationship that I only missed what I thought a Mom should be. That went away soon after and I have not really missed nor mourned her or a "Mom" type figure ever. I feel sad that she suffered, I feel sad that she was so sick Mentally. But that is about it. I have let go of the guilt and realized I have to let myself have my feelings regardless of if others think they are normal. You have a right to feel however you do when ever the feelings come. Try not to over analyze them and realize you have valid reasons for however you are feeling. Hang in there, this a tough time despite who your Mother has been and is. [/QUOTE]
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