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<blockquote data-quote="InsaneCdn" data-source="post: 454080" data-attributes="member: 11791"><p>{{ hugs }}</p><p>Yes, life would be more fair of our kids' problems got spread out across many more kids (i.e. less problems per kid but more kids with problems).</p><p>Instead, we get hammered.</p><p></p><p>Two things to remember:</p><p>1) Each child is an individual, and even IF they have identical DXes, the outcomes will not be the same. So you still have to parent each child according to the child. (which we have to do with our non-difficult child kids too!)</p><p>2) Look after yourself. Its the only way you're going to get through it. Even if it means you need your own therapist - because with the load you are under, you need all the support you can get.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="InsaneCdn, post: 454080, member: 11791"] {{ hugs }} Yes, life would be more fair of our kids' problems got spread out across many more kids (i.e. less problems per kid but more kids with problems). Instead, we get hammered. Two things to remember: 1) Each child is an individual, and even IF they have identical DXes, the outcomes will not be the same. So you still have to parent each child according to the child. (which we have to do with our non-difficult child kids too!) 2) Look after yourself. Its the only way you're going to get through it. Even if it means you need your own therapist - because with the load you are under, you need all the support you can get. [/QUOTE]
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