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<blockquote data-quote="Ropefree" data-source="post: 216595" data-attributes="member: 6271"><p>For my part the most significant thing I offer is to the MUTUALLY ABUSIVE nature of adults endulging in this conflict.</p><p></p><p>What I do know about abusive conduct is IT ALWAYS feels bad...goes nowhere and solves nothing.</p><p></p><p>Adults are pawns in the court system ONLY because they lack the sober mutual concern for their own indivigual family members. </p><p></p><p>How do we help children when their parents are so preoccupied with the emotionally stymulations of conflict to be caring for the best interest of the child today? How does a child have their developementally appropriate time when that has been pre-empted by the fiasco d'jur of the adults preferance? And all their other interesting relationships that they just do not have any problem finding the time to muck about in.</p><p></p><p>Alot of people take on the role of victum-victumizer...and then and then and then</p><p>going for the intervention and stepping out of the cycle of abuse with all that intails removes the child from the role modeling...which, by the way, is in itsself a form of sexual abuse. </p><p>I do not know these particular people, but the allure of the battlefield in the intamacy of a family is the single most prevalent and damaging social disease that children are infected. It is all learned behavor. </p><p>Adults can communicate well enough to be clear and offer a stable foundation for their children. When they can not what is the point exactly?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Ropefree, post: 216595, member: 6271"] For my part the most significant thing I offer is to the MUTUALLY ABUSIVE nature of adults endulging in this conflict. What I do know about abusive conduct is IT ALWAYS feels bad...goes nowhere and solves nothing. Adults are pawns in the court system ONLY because they lack the sober mutual concern for their own indivigual family members. How do we help children when their parents are so preoccupied with the emotionally stymulations of conflict to be caring for the best interest of the child today? How does a child have their developementally appropriate time when that has been pre-empted by the fiasco d'jur of the adults preferance? And all their other interesting relationships that they just do not have any problem finding the time to muck about in. Alot of people take on the role of victum-victumizer...and then and then and then going for the intervention and stepping out of the cycle of abuse with all that intails removes the child from the role modeling...which, by the way, is in itsself a form of sexual abuse. I do not know these particular people, but the allure of the battlefield in the intamacy of a family is the single most prevalent and damaging social disease that children are infected. It is all learned behavor. Adults can communicate well enough to be clear and offer a stable foundation for their children. When they can not what is the point exactly? [/QUOTE]
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