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<blockquote data-quote="ThreeShadows" data-source="post: 216657" data-attributes="member: 6370"><p>FTN, if you are still reading, you are not much older than my difficult children. They have both lost themselves trying to save "damsels in distress". You are so very young and at the start of your life!</p><p></p><p>I am trying to think of you as coming from a different culture in order to understand your involvement in this family's affairs. You were in the military, where they taught you that there were good guys (you) and bad guys (the Enemy). I truly have no idea what the real story is in this case but I want you to know that my parents had a very vicious divorce. My mother was Hell -bent on getting me to hate my father because he had hurt her. When I was 13 y.o. she told me he was a sexual deviant who wanted her to **** dogs while he was watching. For years, I was unable to look at a man or a dog without that excruciatingly painful association.</p><p></p><p>Please protect yourself if you decide to stay and take on the burden of this family's problems (you may be accused next). This little girl needs to be allowed to find out for herself what is reality, she can't be a pawn in this game of bitterness. Everyone of you needs to calm down and grow up.</p><p></p><p>You can only control your own behavior: <a href="http://www.conductdisorders.com/community/threads/article-on-detachment.53639/" target="_blank">http://www.conductdisorders.com/community/threads/article-on-detachment.53639/</a></p><p></p><p>I will say to you what I say to my sons: please do apologize for the emotional *F* bomb comment.</p><p></p><p>God bless!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="ThreeShadows, post: 216657, member: 6370"] FTN, if you are still reading, you are not much older than my difficult children. They have both lost themselves trying to save "damsels in distress". You are so very young and at the start of your life! I am trying to think of you as coming from a different culture in order to understand your involvement in this family's affairs. You were in the military, where they taught you that there were good guys (you) and bad guys (the Enemy). I truly have no idea what the real story is in this case but I want you to know that my parents had a very vicious divorce. My mother was Hell -bent on getting me to hate my father because he had hurt her. When I was 13 y.o. she told me he was a sexual deviant who wanted her to **** dogs while he was watching. For years, I was unable to look at a man or a dog without that excruciatingly painful association. Please protect yourself if you decide to stay and take on the burden of this family's problems (you may be accused next). This little girl needs to be allowed to find out for herself what is reality, she can't be a pawn in this game of bitterness. Everyone of you needs to calm down and grow up. You can only control your own behavior: [URL]http://www.conductdisorders.com/community/threads/article-on-detachment.53639/[/URL] I will say to you what I say to my sons: please do apologize for the emotional *F* bomb comment. God bless! [/QUOTE]
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