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<blockquote data-quote="flutterby" data-source="post: 322248" data-attributes="member: 7083"><p>I'm very sorry for your situation. However, and I know you're aware of this, your sister controls your entire family.</p><p></p><p>Frankly, it needs to stop and it can stop now by not letting her stay with you. She will be away from her parents (I'm a little confused about if your parents are in the same country as you, and if you're in your home country or a foreign country), so she won't be able to manipulate them as easily. Your parents need to flat out refuse to take her calls if she's abusive verbally or physically. And, frankly, if she can scrounge up the money without a job to buy a plane ticket like you mentioned earlier, she can figure out how to make it on her own. It's just that no one has forced her.</p><p></p><p>Yes, she's mentally ill. Yes, she has ASPD. But, she's also 30 years old, does know right from wrong (people with ASPD do know that...they just don't care) and is responsible for her actions.</p><p></p><p>I know you love your sister and this will be hard. But, it's the only way you are ever going to have any peace.</p><p></p><p>(((hugs)))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="flutterby, post: 322248, member: 7083"] I'm very sorry for your situation. However, and I know you're aware of this, your sister controls your entire family. Frankly, it needs to stop and it can stop now by not letting her stay with you. She will be away from her parents (I'm a little confused about if your parents are in the same country as you, and if you're in your home country or a foreign country), so she won't be able to manipulate them as easily. Your parents need to flat out refuse to take her calls if she's abusive verbally or physically. And, frankly, if she can scrounge up the money without a job to buy a plane ticket like you mentioned earlier, she can figure out how to make it on her own. It's just that no one has forced her. Yes, she's mentally ill. Yes, she has ASPD. But, she's also 30 years old, does know right from wrong (people with ASPD do know that...they just don't care) and is responsible for her actions. I know you love your sister and this will be hard. But, it's the only way you are ever going to have any peace. (((hugs))) [/QUOTE]
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