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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 590981" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>MWM I realize you have issues after having the other son do what he did, but this is not the same situation. This is a child literally svcking the life out of you to make himself feel better without any concern about the toll it is taking on you. </p><p></p><p>One threat like that from one of mine?? Uh, no. Mom would be <strong>done</strong>. I don't play those games. And yes, I've dealt with losing one.......it's horrible, but then again so is having one make your life a living hell on earth. Done doesn't have to be permanent. Done can simply be until they get their head out of their rear and realize that it's not all about them. (and after a genuine apology) </p><p></p><p>I hate to say this but with his current behavior I truly don't think it is very emotionally/mentally healthy for grandson to be spending much time with him. Having a parent so severely needy is going to have some long lasting detrimental affects on the child if difficult child can't get his act together. If he's behaving this way with you, I hate to imagine what is being said to your grandson. </p><p></p><p>Sadly the more you yield to his behavior, the worse it is going to get. It's like with any other difficult child behavior. </p><p></p><p>Getting some support for yourself is a good idea. Distancing yourself from difficult child is a better idea. </p><p></p><p>((hugs))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 590981, member: 84"] MWM I realize you have issues after having the other son do what he did, but this is not the same situation. This is a child literally svcking the life out of you to make himself feel better without any concern about the toll it is taking on you. One threat like that from one of mine?? Uh, no. Mom would be [B]done[/B]. I don't play those games. And yes, I've dealt with losing one.......it's horrible, but then again so is having one make your life a living hell on earth. Done doesn't have to be permanent. Done can simply be until they get their head out of their rear and realize that it's not all about them. (and after a genuine apology) I hate to say this but with his current behavior I truly don't think it is very emotionally/mentally healthy for grandson to be spending much time with him. Having a parent so severely needy is going to have some long lasting detrimental affects on the child if difficult child can't get his act together. If he's behaving this way with you, I hate to imagine what is being said to your grandson. Sadly the more you yield to his behavior, the worse it is going to get. It's like with any other difficult child behavior. Getting some support for yourself is a good idea. Distancing yourself from difficult child is a better idea. ((hugs)) [/QUOTE]
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