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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 591012" data-attributes="member: 84"><p style="text-align: left"><span style="color: #000000"></span></p> <p style="text-align: left"><span style="color: #000000">Make that you're new mantra when you feel yourself wavering. </span></p> <p style="text-align: left"><span style="color: #000000"></span></p> <p style="text-align: left"><span style="color: #000000">I have something similar with Katie. It's awful but her sibs have all told me that once the grands are grown they don't see them putting forth any effort with Katie anymore, there isn't much point. I can't say I blame them much.</span></p> <p style="text-align: left"><span style="color: #000000"></span></p> <p style="text-align: left"><span style="color: #000000">I only put forth effort when I see her making attempts to connect. I stopped driving myself nuts trying to pull her into family functions and whatever. She either does or doesn't. Every once in a while she surprises me. Last night she wanted info on Fred's military career for Kayla for a school project. So I told her the high points, if she wants details I am not doing 17 yrs of service in text. omg (3 navy/14 army) She was surprised and told me that is the most information she ever had about her dad. Biomom refuses to talk about him. Okkkkk........this was no secret....so was she in la la land the whole time she grew up or what?? lol </span></p> <p style="text-align: left"><span style="color: #000000"></span></p><p></p><p>Yes, I have to laugh a lot when it comes to Katie, otherwise I'd pound my head into the wall too frequently. I do an awful lot of ignoring too. </p><p></p><p>I thing the group would be a big help to you. ((hugs))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 591012, member: 84"] [LEFT][COLOR=#000000] Make that you're new mantra when you feel yourself wavering. I have something similar with Katie. It's awful but her sibs have all told me that once the grands are grown they don't see them putting forth any effort with Katie anymore, there isn't much point. I can't say I blame them much. I only put forth effort when I see her making attempts to connect. I stopped driving myself nuts trying to pull her into family functions and whatever. She either does or doesn't. Every once in a while she surprises me. Last night she wanted info on Fred's military career for Kayla for a school project. So I told her the high points, if she wants details I am not doing 17 yrs of service in text. omg (3 navy/14 army) She was surprised and told me that is the most information she ever had about her dad. Biomom refuses to talk about him. Okkkkk........this was no secret....so was she in la la land the whole time she grew up or what?? lol [/COLOR][/LEFT] Yes, I have to laugh a lot when it comes to Katie, otherwise I'd pound my head into the wall too frequently. I do an awful lot of ignoring too. I thing the group would be a big help to you. ((hugs)) [/QUOTE]
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