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<blockquote data-quote="WSM" data-source="post: 304765" data-attributes="member: 5169"><p>Whether I can get a restraining order or not if up to the judge. husband really doesn't have much money and no family or friends nearby. It would disrupt the schooling of the kids. It is legally his house too.</p><p> </p><p>Chances are the judge is going to tell him that he can live in the house until it's sold but must not abuse me in any way. Judge will probably say no alcohol. And I will ask for the right to record without further permission. I will ask that difficult child is never in the house without husband if husband gets to come back. All I can do is try. But I have no bruises. </p><p> </p><p>husband's problem is going to be CPS. His very, very crazy first wife also accused him of abusing her, but she also attacked him and broke his glasses in front of witnesses. She also accused him of alcoholism. And now 8 years later I'm doing the same. And I'm not crazy. And I have adult children witnesses, and their friends as witnesses. He'd be very smart to be nice and cooperative with me, but he won't be, he's too scared and too angry. He'll coach the kids...I have to say my piece and walk away and let what happens, happens. But he maybe this was a wake up call; he may be cooperative because he really needs not to have the police called again. </p><p> </p><p>I don't know if I'm going to get a restraining order, but I am going to try. Even if I can't, I bet I can get a partial that says he cannot drink and has to stay with his son.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="WSM, post: 304765, member: 5169"] Whether I can get a restraining order or not if up to the judge. husband really doesn't have much money and no family or friends nearby. It would disrupt the schooling of the kids. It is legally his house too. Chances are the judge is going to tell him that he can live in the house until it's sold but must not abuse me in any way. Judge will probably say no alcohol. And I will ask for the right to record without further permission. I will ask that difficult child is never in the house without husband if husband gets to come back. All I can do is try. But I have no bruises. husband's problem is going to be CPS. His very, very crazy first wife also accused him of abusing her, but she also attacked him and broke his glasses in front of witnesses. She also accused him of alcoholism. And now 8 years later I'm doing the same. And I'm not crazy. And I have adult children witnesses, and their friends as witnesses. He'd be very smart to be nice and cooperative with me, but he won't be, he's too scared and too angry. He'll coach the kids...I have to say my piece and walk away and let what happens, happens. But he maybe this was a wake up call; he may be cooperative because he really needs not to have the police called again. I don't know if I'm going to get a restraining order, but I am going to try. Even if I can't, I bet I can get a partial that says he cannot drink and has to stay with his son. [/QUOTE]
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