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<blockquote data-quote="WSM" data-source="post: 304893" data-attributes="member: 5169"><p>Got the police report. husband said he didn't push me, but put hands on me because I was yelling at stepdaughter. This is a lie, but both kids said he did not shove me. I knew difficult child would lie, but I guess stepdau lied because while she was with him on the back porch he was scaring them, "You better say this and that, or I'll be arrested and then what will happen to you?"</p><p> </p><p>The police report was written like this: she (me) refused medical treatment (because I didn't need it), there was no sign of a struggle, there was no bruising. It makes it all sound like a big nothing, except for the part where I'm yelling at stepdau and the kids say husband did not shove me. Sigh...</p><p> </p><p>It occurred to me that husband might be coaching them to confess that I've been abusing them all along. So I had no choice but to file a restraining order (not that I was hesitating). It occurred to me too that perhaps husband beat me down there and filed one against me on behalf of the kids. I don't think he did, but I thought...wow, that would have been a good move. So I have to protect my behind and keep us separated. And he might have. I don't know.</p><p> </p><p>I filed one against husband asking for temporary support in the form of alimony for half the mortgage and heloc. I doubt I'll get it mortgage/alimony. I also filed one against difficult child which caused a lot of consternation, "How old is he?" you can't do that, etc... I explained the history, and the specialist looked doubtful and filed a second one against husband on behalf of difficult child. If granted it will be husband's job to keep difficult child away from me. I worry about difficult child being sent in the house even if husband has to keep 500 feet away. </p><p> </p><p>Which I would think husband would want to do anyway.</p><p> </p><p>I don't know if I'll get these or not. I have to go back between 4 and 7 and 'get my paperwork'. Sounds like they are just granted for the most part until the hearing for a permanent one. The minute he gets the paperwork if he gets a restraining order, he will cancel our lights, water, insurance, etc... So I'm prepared for that. </p><p> </p><p>husband came this morning and took his truck without coming in the house. Right now he and difficult child are supposed to be at drug court.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="WSM, post: 304893, member: 5169"] Got the police report. husband said he didn't push me, but put hands on me because I was yelling at stepdaughter. This is a lie, but both kids said he did not shove me. I knew difficult child would lie, but I guess stepdau lied because while she was with him on the back porch he was scaring them, "You better say this and that, or I'll be arrested and then what will happen to you?" The police report was written like this: she (me) refused medical treatment (because I didn't need it), there was no sign of a struggle, there was no bruising. It makes it all sound like a big nothing, except for the part where I'm yelling at stepdau and the kids say husband did not shove me. Sigh... It occurred to me that husband might be coaching them to confess that I've been abusing them all along. So I had no choice but to file a restraining order (not that I was hesitating). It occurred to me too that perhaps husband beat me down there and filed one against me on behalf of the kids. I don't think he did, but I thought...wow, that would have been a good move. So I have to protect my behind and keep us separated. And he might have. I don't know. I filed one against husband asking for temporary support in the form of alimony for half the mortgage and heloc. I doubt I'll get it mortgage/alimony. I also filed one against difficult child which caused a lot of consternation, "How old is he?" you can't do that, etc... I explained the history, and the specialist looked doubtful and filed a second one against husband on behalf of difficult child. If granted it will be husband's job to keep difficult child away from me. I worry about difficult child being sent in the house even if husband has to keep 500 feet away. Which I would think husband would want to do anyway. I don't know if I'll get these or not. I have to go back between 4 and 7 and 'get my paperwork'. Sounds like they are just granted for the most part until the hearing for a permanent one. The minute he gets the paperwork if he gets a restraining order, he will cancel our lights, water, insurance, etc... So I'm prepared for that. husband came this morning and took his truck without coming in the house. Right now he and difficult child are supposed to be at drug court. [/QUOTE]
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