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<blockquote data-quote="WSM" data-source="post: 304971" data-attributes="member: 5169"><p>I got the restraining order until 9/24. Then we go before a judge, the judge will decide if he will grant the alimony for half the mortgage then.</p><p> </p><p>husband turned off all the utilities, but I stayed ahead of him. I don't want the landline, I didn't miss a beat with the electric, the tv is still showing our tivo'd selections but we won't get service for a couple days. And I'm on free linksys for internet, it will be set up in my name next week. I think the car insurance is cut off too. </p><p> </p><p>He came by at dinner with stepdau and stepson and two cops and took out more clothes and two mattresses. Stepdau was afraid to look at me. Sigh... Just before he left, he said: I'm sorry for the mean things I said. </p><p> </p><p>So I guess he's got an apartment. Wonder where he got the money.</p><p> </p><p>So now I've got an extra $454 a month for his car that's in my name, $700 in utilities, and probably his share of the mortgage $1440 and his share of the heloc $150. And there's a ton of work that needs to be done on the house about $2000 and I just finished paying for his car accident for my car: $1000.</p><p> </p><p>Financial abuse is a form of abuse too. </p><p> </p><p>I'll see if tomorrow I can talk to a realtor. Zillow says the house is worth about $365K, I need it to be $380K to break even. I don't know how accurate Zillow is. We have some plusses (on a lake, new pool and kitchen), and some unfinished projects (halfway finished upper hall floors, unfinished ceiling in kitchen) so maybe $340K? That's $40K debt. Plus I need about $4000 to move into a new apartment.</p><p> </p><p>I feel very overwhelmed. I'll make it, but...dam I'm sad and anxious.</p><p> </p><p>But this is for the best and I know it. I just wish it was over.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="WSM, post: 304971, member: 5169"] I got the restraining order until 9/24. Then we go before a judge, the judge will decide if he will grant the alimony for half the mortgage then. husband turned off all the utilities, but I stayed ahead of him. I don't want the landline, I didn't miss a beat with the electric, the tv is still showing our tivo'd selections but we won't get service for a couple days. And I'm on free linksys for internet, it will be set up in my name next week. I think the car insurance is cut off too. He came by at dinner with stepdau and stepson and two cops and took out more clothes and two mattresses. Stepdau was afraid to look at me. Sigh... Just before he left, he said: I'm sorry for the mean things I said. So I guess he's got an apartment. Wonder where he got the money. So now I've got an extra $454 a month for his car that's in my name, $700 in utilities, and probably his share of the mortgage $1440 and his share of the heloc $150. And there's a ton of work that needs to be done on the house about $2000 and I just finished paying for his car accident for my car: $1000. Financial abuse is a form of abuse too. I'll see if tomorrow I can talk to a realtor. Zillow says the house is worth about $365K, I need it to be $380K to break even. I don't know how accurate Zillow is. We have some plusses (on a lake, new pool and kitchen), and some unfinished projects (halfway finished upper hall floors, unfinished ceiling in kitchen) so maybe $340K? That's $40K debt. Plus I need about $4000 to move into a new apartment. I feel very overwhelmed. I'll make it, but...dam I'm sad and anxious. But this is for the best and I know it. I just wish it was over. [/QUOTE]
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