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It must be Monday because I'm LIVID with difficult child 1
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<blockquote data-quote="Marguerite" data-source="post: 356901" data-attributes="member: 1991"><p>Find a therapist. Bill difficult child 1 for the charges and make him work it off if he can't pay it off. Then find the most unattractive poster you can, of perhaps a burka-clad woman or similar level of bodily cover-up in drab colours (I am not meaning to be racist, religiousist or any other -ist, just trying to find an example of full female cover-up in a poster) and stick it up on his wall, or make it the wallpaper on his phone.</p><p></p><p>Something I did with difficult child 1 when he was dabbling in porn - I sat him down beside me at the computer and surfed for "dead porn stars". Then we read up on how the actor/actress died and how messy it was. I then said to him that the porn industry chews people up so whenever he is looking at any images or film, he is looking at someone being raped. They may have 'agreed' to do it, but they need the money desperately, or someone has some sort of hold over them, or they may think it's a path to fame and glory only to find it's a death trap and they can't easily escape.</p><p></p><p>Some do escape, but not many. And he won't know the backstory behind any of the photos or film.</p><p></p><p>Whether you believe Linda Lovelace or not, what she wrote about her experiences of appearing in her most famous movie "Deep Throat" might, just might, get the message through. she said that although in the film it looks like she's really enjoying what she was doing, she was in realty an abused, battered wife threatened with murder if she didn't make it look believable.</p><p></p><p>It worked on difficult child 1 (maybe too well!). From what you've said about difficult child 1, I don't know how successful this method will be, but it could be worth a try.</p><p></p><p>Besides, scanning the net for porn is fun, but not if your mother is with you. That makes a guy feel really ooky.</p><p></p><p>Marg</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Marguerite, post: 356901, member: 1991"] Find a therapist. Bill difficult child 1 for the charges and make him work it off if he can't pay it off. Then find the most unattractive poster you can, of perhaps a burka-clad woman or similar level of bodily cover-up in drab colours (I am not meaning to be racist, religiousist or any other -ist, just trying to find an example of full female cover-up in a poster) and stick it up on his wall, or make it the wallpaper on his phone. Something I did with difficult child 1 when he was dabbling in porn - I sat him down beside me at the computer and surfed for "dead porn stars". Then we read up on how the actor/actress died and how messy it was. I then said to him that the porn industry chews people up so whenever he is looking at any images or film, he is looking at someone being raped. They may have 'agreed' to do it, but they need the money desperately, or someone has some sort of hold over them, or they may think it's a path to fame and glory only to find it's a death trap and they can't easily escape. Some do escape, but not many. And he won't know the backstory behind any of the photos or film. Whether you believe Linda Lovelace or not, what she wrote about her experiences of appearing in her most famous movie "Deep Throat" might, just might, get the message through. she said that although in the film it looks like she's really enjoying what she was doing, she was in realty an abused, battered wife threatened with murder if she didn't make it look believable. It worked on difficult child 1 (maybe too well!). From what you've said about difficult child 1, I don't know how successful this method will be, but it could be worth a try. Besides, scanning the net for porn is fun, but not if your mother is with you. That makes a guy feel really ooky. Marg [/QUOTE]
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