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<blockquote data-quote="1000sunsets" data-source="post: 600170" data-attributes="member: 16512"><p>scent of cedar,</p><p>Thank you for your advise and support. I have been reading the mentioned book and it is great. I have been so busy but get to read a page or two every chance I can get. We never stopped believing that our son was going to change for the better, but after destroying various cars, stealing from us and his own son, and disobeying my requests to keep his wife out of our home I just simply had it with him and stopped talking to him. He still calls but I do not answer. He still texts me but I do not reply. Last message he left was about him being homeless (because of course he destroyed the car he was living out of) and out in the streets begging for money to get something to eat and could not believe I would do that to him and leave him out in the streets. First of all I thought of how selfish he can be and that he put himself in that situation and nobody else. Second of all where is his better half? If she is with her mom than what kind of relationship is that where she is having it easy and not supporting him. I think of how many times he would sneek her into our home and why can't she do that for him now! Like I said previously, I have a more stronger heart than my wife and maybe be considered as being too cold but I refuse to give in and let him learn from his mistakes and selfishness. He even mentioned in his message he left me that he was having it hard out in the street and that He would probably die out there and it would be too late to forgive him. Now, is that dramatic or what! My son went to prison a couple of times so I can say he has the street smarts and also went to school so there is no excuse that he cannot make it out there and find some kind of job. I emphasized to him in one of the last open conversations I had with him that he would have to swallow his pride and start from the bottom up and get a job even as a dishwasher or picking up trash or something. Eventhough, if something does happen to him physically, he had many opportunities and the option of making the right choices. Please do not make me out as a bad person. My parents raised me up with good morals and I did make a few bad chioices in life but learned from my mistakes and tried my best to be a good husband, father, and friend. In conclusion, I would like to again thank everyone's support, advise, and prayers. I wish that none of us would have to experience these unfortunate situations but we are and as long as we have our backs we have a chance of gaining back some sort of comfort and happiness.......God Bless</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="1000sunsets, post: 600170, member: 16512"] scent of cedar, Thank you for your advise and support. I have been reading the mentioned book and it is great. I have been so busy but get to read a page or two every chance I can get. We never stopped believing that our son was going to change for the better, but after destroying various cars, stealing from us and his own son, and disobeying my requests to keep his wife out of our home I just simply had it with him and stopped talking to him. He still calls but I do not answer. He still texts me but I do not reply. Last message he left was about him being homeless (because of course he destroyed the car he was living out of) and out in the streets begging for money to get something to eat and could not believe I would do that to him and leave him out in the streets. First of all I thought of how selfish he can be and that he put himself in that situation and nobody else. Second of all where is his better half? If she is with her mom than what kind of relationship is that where she is having it easy and not supporting him. I think of how many times he would sneek her into our home and why can't she do that for him now! Like I said previously, I have a more stronger heart than my wife and maybe be considered as being too cold but I refuse to give in and let him learn from his mistakes and selfishness. He even mentioned in his message he left me that he was having it hard out in the street and that He would probably die out there and it would be too late to forgive him. Now, is that dramatic or what! My son went to prison a couple of times so I can say he has the street smarts and also went to school so there is no excuse that he cannot make it out there and find some kind of job. I emphasized to him in one of the last open conversations I had with him that he would have to swallow his pride and start from the bottom up and get a job even as a dishwasher or picking up trash or something. Eventhough, if something does happen to him physically, he had many opportunities and the option of making the right choices. Please do not make me out as a bad person. My parents raised me up with good morals and I did make a few bad chioices in life but learned from my mistakes and tried my best to be a good husband, father, and friend. In conclusion, I would like to again thank everyone's support, advise, and prayers. I wish that none of us would have to experience these unfortunate situations but we are and as long as we have our backs we have a chance of gaining back some sort of comfort and happiness.......God Bless [/QUOTE]
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