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i'Tourette's Syndrome a forever thing they all agree
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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 403951" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>Hey!!!</p><p> </p><p>Give her a break?? LOL. she's had a break for 12 years that's what got her here. mom Mom'd far too much i think at times. yet the last year iv'e worked real hard at learning how detatch not that it helps her lol.</p><p> </p><p>anyhow, had a mtg. with entire staff i have to say i truly love these people. they are warm, friendly, blunt, honest and admitting when they just dont' know. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p><p> </p><p>so she didnt' eat well today at all there. the old behaviors came back. I told them my thought process on stuff.l I said simply her subconscious and conscious mind do not coincide i said that's what i think. upfront yes she wants to go home yet subconsciously can't spell she is screaming oh no not back there to no friends, no life etc. (hence the my throat hurts). I said also it to me now that i can look back seems like a mix of anxiety true fear from shock of going home mixed with neediness to be sick (look at me, look at me) she loves attention on her and knows it will dissapate somewhat, mixed with all the other fun junk.</p><p> </p><p>the doctor's all looked at me and said we are on the same exact page with you. and you should go back to school and become a therapist and work with kids! that was a cool compliment.</p><p> </p><p>anyhow we all agree whether i'm here 2 mos or 1 mos she'll react same when its time to go home. choke up etc. they also all agree that she will def. struggle with this again that's why the aftercare piece has to be in place.</p><p> </p><p>so it all rests on this weekend. if she does a full shut down on me i simply can't go that would be silly i'll have to stay a bit longer to show her guess what that isnt' going to work and be proactive and reactive at the same time with-her. showing her a direct response to her negative actions. so it'll rest on this weekend now. i have to check in early monday a.m. with them.</p><p> </p><p>they think dad not coming is great. they said his anxietys thru roof he's already called them all day long regarding difficult child.</p><p> </p><p>what else can i say or share? they only reason they taper off the medications is because they've never had a kid like difficult child. and with your basic anxiety child you can taper down once the fear has been conquered. with her it's different.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 403951, member: 4514"] Hey!!! Give her a break?? LOL. she's had a break for 12 years that's what got her here. mom Mom'd far too much i think at times. yet the last year iv'e worked real hard at learning how detatch not that it helps her lol. anyhow, had a mtg. with entire staff i have to say i truly love these people. they are warm, friendly, blunt, honest and admitting when they just dont' know. :) so she didnt' eat well today at all there. the old behaviors came back. I told them my thought process on stuff.l I said simply her subconscious and conscious mind do not coincide i said that's what i think. upfront yes she wants to go home yet subconsciously can't spell she is screaming oh no not back there to no friends, no life etc. (hence the my throat hurts). I said also it to me now that i can look back seems like a mix of anxiety true fear from shock of going home mixed with neediness to be sick (look at me, look at me) she loves attention on her and knows it will dissapate somewhat, mixed with all the other fun junk. the doctor's all looked at me and said we are on the same exact page with you. and you should go back to school and become a therapist and work with kids! that was a cool compliment. anyhow we all agree whether i'm here 2 mos or 1 mos she'll react same when its time to go home. choke up etc. they also all agree that she will def. struggle with this again that's why the aftercare piece has to be in place. so it all rests on this weekend. if she does a full shut down on me i simply can't go that would be silly i'll have to stay a bit longer to show her guess what that isnt' going to work and be proactive and reactive at the same time with-her. showing her a direct response to her negative actions. so it'll rest on this weekend now. i have to check in early monday a.m. with them. they think dad not coming is great. they said his anxietys thru roof he's already called them all day long regarding difficult child. what else can i say or share? they only reason they taper off the medications is because they've never had a kid like difficult child. and with your basic anxiety child you can taper down once the fear has been conquered. with her it's different. [/QUOTE]
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