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<blockquote data-quote="Bean" data-source="post: 456591" data-attributes="member: 8620"><p>It is hard to know what's "right" or "wrong" or what will make a dent. I think it is often many instances that lead up to that moment. And time. Time, repeated stupidity and consequences. The main thing you're drilling in is that the lifestyle and choices he's making are not conducive with living in your household. There are consequences to behaviors. Seems these difficult children have a harder time learning that. Hopefully he can sense that - and soon.</p><p></p><p>Kicking someone out isn't easy. It's not just the action of doing it, but the day-to-day reminder of it, and choice of it. Every time you see them, every time they ask, you have to make a choice to cave, or a choice to stand strong. I know it isn't easy. Sending hugs.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Bean, post: 456591, member: 8620"] It is hard to know what's "right" or "wrong" or what will make a dent. I think it is often many instances that lead up to that moment. And time. Time, repeated stupidity and consequences. The main thing you're drilling in is that the lifestyle and choices he's making are not conducive with living in your household. There are consequences to behaviors. Seems these difficult children have a harder time learning that. Hopefully he can sense that - and soon. Kicking someone out isn't easy. It's not just the action of doing it, but the day-to-day reminder of it, and choice of it. Every time you see them, every time they ask, you have to make a choice to cave, or a choice to stand strong. I know it isn't easy. Sending hugs. [/QUOTE]
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