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<blockquote data-quote="nvts" data-source="post: 415813" data-attributes="member: 3814"><p>Julie! You've done the best thing in the world for him. Of course he's saying everything to you to hurt you...it's his way of making you hurt as much as he has since his friend passed. Don't take it personally, he's striking out at the world, and who better to hit than the person with unconditional love.</p><p> </p><p>My difficult child 1 has been in and out of psychiatric hospital. for the last year - each time you think it's going to make him livable (heck - sometimes even lovable) and you're willing to let it last as long as it lasts so that you can HOPE that he'll come out with a different perspective. My advice - don't rush things along. He's really suffering a huge loss and he needs to work things through. Let him be mad - it's better than being dead. If you keep that in mind, you'll be able to cope with the rotten things he has/will say!</p><p> </p><p>Warm hugs headed your way!</p><p> </p><p>Beth</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="nvts, post: 415813, member: 3814"] Julie! You've done the best thing in the world for him. Of course he's saying everything to you to hurt you...it's his way of making you hurt as much as he has since his friend passed. Don't take it personally, he's striking out at the world, and who better to hit than the person with unconditional love. My difficult child 1 has been in and out of psychiatric hospital. for the last year - each time you think it's going to make him livable (heck - sometimes even lovable) and you're willing to let it last as long as it lasts so that you can HOPE that he'll come out with a different perspective. My advice - don't rush things along. He's really suffering a huge loss and he needs to work things through. Let him be mad - it's better than being dead. If you keep that in mind, you'll be able to cope with the rotten things he has/will say! Warm hugs headed your way! Beth [/QUOTE]
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