Oh. He is not the support group type of guy, and she is not going to be in a dangerous city. Im sure there are many similar at risk professions but that is not a guarantee. At this point, i cant imagine him or her going there....there is no divorce in either family, (both grew up in loving intact families) so that should be a strong point for them...much family support and the belief that you ride bumps. They have calm and stable temperments.
My hubs dad was a county state cop in Lake Couty IL and happily married to my husbands mother until his death.
Thanks for your thoughts. I mean, divorce is common in general. Two people of the same profession can break up....these two have everything in common including stability.