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Just a bunch of questions this morning....paternity and child support
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<blockquote data-quote="Signorina" data-source="post: 605167"><p>The whole point of legal marriage is to confer legitimacy. The definition if marriage has expanded over the years but basically that's it. </p><p></p><p>As far as punishing women for getting pregnant on purpose by making the child her sole financial responsibility? Are you punishing the woman? Face it- you're punishing the CHILD. An innocent child who deserves two parents and shouldn't be used as a pawn in punishment of ANYONE. In every case, the child's rights far supersede the circumstances of his or her birth or conception. And we can talk all we want about male rape & wanton woman trickery but the number of neglectful deadbeat dads saddling mothers with full responsibility for children far outnumbers the reverse. 80% of single parents are single mothers. And single mothers have the highest rate of poverty in the US.</p><p></p><p>I work in an area where men father children with multiple, teenage baby mommas. We've watched polished, smart & promising young women become HS dropouts & mothers of 2 or more before age 19. We hire great seeming young men who quit the moment their child support garnishment order finds them at our business. I've had baby mommas call me begging for a portion of the dad's check or to be placed on our insurance as his dependent, even those who for 401k or life insurance proceeds when he died. (I can't do any with-o a court order or a marriage certificate .)</p><p></p><p>As for looks? NONE of my kids look a smidge like me. Two have blue eyes and neither h not I have blue eyes & my sole relative with blue eyes was 1 great grandma. (My parents, grandparents and 7/8 great gps were brown eyed!) All 3 were blond toddlers- pc16 was a platinum blonde until 8. My hair is nearly black. And they don't look like each other! PC16 has perfect textured, slightly curly hair, PC19 has super thick, wavy but coarse hair, difficult child has super straight baby fine & thin hair. difficult child is olive & tans super dark, PC19 is pink & burns always, PC16 is fair but eventually tans. PC16 is his dad's clone, PC19 looks exactly like my cousins on my moms side and difficult child is combo of my dad and H's dad. People remark upon my kids total lack of any resemblance to me. So, you just never know!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Signorina, post: 605167"] The whole point of legal marriage is to confer legitimacy. The definition if marriage has expanded over the years but basically that's it. As far as punishing women for getting pregnant on purpose by making the child her sole financial responsibility? Are you punishing the woman? Face it- you're punishing the CHILD. An innocent child who deserves two parents and shouldn't be used as a pawn in punishment of ANYONE. In every case, the child's rights far supersede the circumstances of his or her birth or conception. And we can talk all we want about male rape & wanton woman trickery but the number of neglectful deadbeat dads saddling mothers with full responsibility for children far outnumbers the reverse. 80% of single parents are single mothers. And single mothers have the highest rate of poverty in the US. I work in an area where men father children with multiple, teenage baby mommas. We've watched polished, smart & promising young women become HS dropouts & mothers of 2 or more before age 19. We hire great seeming young men who quit the moment their child support garnishment order finds them at our business. I've had baby mommas call me begging for a portion of the dad's check or to be placed on our insurance as his dependent, even those who for 401k or life insurance proceeds when he died. (I can't do any with-o a court order or a marriage certificate .) As for looks? NONE of my kids look a smidge like me. Two have blue eyes and neither h not I have blue eyes & my sole relative with blue eyes was 1 great grandma. (My parents, grandparents and 7/8 great gps were brown eyed!) All 3 were blond toddlers- pc16 was a platinum blonde until 8. My hair is nearly black. And they don't look like each other! PC16 has perfect textured, slightly curly hair, PC19 has super thick, wavy but coarse hair, difficult child has super straight baby fine & thin hair. difficult child is olive & tans super dark, PC19 is pink & burns always, PC16 is fair but eventually tans. PC16 is his dad's clone, PC19 looks exactly like my cousins on my moms side and difficult child is combo of my dad and H's dad. People remark upon my kids total lack of any resemblance to me. So, you just never know!! [/QUOTE]
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