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Just a bunch of questions this morning....paternity and child support
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 605225" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Oh, I know women withhold kids, but they can't if the men pay them through the court system. My son's ex wanted him to just pay her, but then there would be no record. If my son had to bring the cops to the door to get his child on his court ordered visitation day, he'd do it. He isn't perfect, but nothing will ever keep him from his son. </p><p></p><p>Of course, there are goofball judges and not all fathers know that it's best to pay through the court system so that there is a record of payment. However, even if a man is behind in his payments, he is still supposed to be able to see his child. They are seen as two different issues. Of course, if he is court ordered to pay and won't pay, jail can get in the way of that...lol. My son has hooked up with a slew of men who are determined to get 50/50 custody so they help each other know what the right and wrong things are to do. And it's definitely almost a must to have a lawyer if you have a very contentious ex. 35 is very lucky. His dad is paying his fees and he has paid close to $50K to date and his ex, as much as she'd like to make a brand new family with her, my grandson and her honey, is afraid to deny him visitation as much as she's like to wipe my son out of my grandson's life. The fact is, my grandson likes going to his dad's house more than being with Mom/boyfriend and it drives her nuts.</p><p></p><p>Some fathers try to keep kids from others too. You hear stories about men running off with kids and taking them clear to other countries. One has to wonder if these nutjob parents even care about their kids. It seems that they are more interested in punishing the ex. In my son's case, ex seems bent on punishing him, even though she was the one who ran off with another man. In the process of trying to so-called screw with my son she has screamed at grandson's daycare worker, defied the orders of grandson's Guardian Ad Litem, showed up in a rage at son's workplace (he has witnesses) and recorded phonecalls between my son and his child. Son's lawyer is very optimistic that his ex is going to royally tick off the judge on many levels.</p><p></p><p>I do not understand why parents hurt their children to get back at their ex's. Honest, when I divorced my ex, it never crossed either of our minds to harm the kids. And we got along for their sake and it was a no-brainer that if ex wanted to see the kids, he saw the kids. I scratch my head at people like your kid's bio. mom who seemed to be punishing THEM thru your husband...as well as by my son's ex. As I've often said, he is no angel, but she actually makes him seem like one, and he tries very hard to do what is right for his child. I give him THAT <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 605225, member: 1550"] Oh, I know women withhold kids, but they can't if the men pay them through the court system. My son's ex wanted him to just pay her, but then there would be no record. If my son had to bring the cops to the door to get his child on his court ordered visitation day, he'd do it. He isn't perfect, but nothing will ever keep him from his son. Of course, there are goofball judges and not all fathers know that it's best to pay through the court system so that there is a record of payment. However, even if a man is behind in his payments, he is still supposed to be able to see his child. They are seen as two different issues. Of course, if he is court ordered to pay and won't pay, jail can get in the way of that...lol. My son has hooked up with a slew of men who are determined to get 50/50 custody so they help each other know what the right and wrong things are to do. And it's definitely almost a must to have a lawyer if you have a very contentious ex. 35 is very lucky. His dad is paying his fees and he has paid close to $50K to date and his ex, as much as she'd like to make a brand new family with her, my grandson and her honey, is afraid to deny him visitation as much as she's like to wipe my son out of my grandson's life. The fact is, my grandson likes going to his dad's house more than being with Mom/boyfriend and it drives her nuts. Some fathers try to keep kids from others too. You hear stories about men running off with kids and taking them clear to other countries. One has to wonder if these nutjob parents even care about their kids. It seems that they are more interested in punishing the ex. In my son's case, ex seems bent on punishing him, even though she was the one who ran off with another man. In the process of trying to so-called screw with my son she has screamed at grandson's daycare worker, defied the orders of grandson's Guardian Ad Litem, showed up in a rage at son's workplace (he has witnesses) and recorded phonecalls between my son and his child. Son's lawyer is very optimistic that his ex is going to royally tick off the judge on many levels. I do not understand why parents hurt their children to get back at their ex's. Honest, when I divorced my ex, it never crossed either of our minds to harm the kids. And we got along for their sake and it was a no-brainer that if ex wanted to see the kids, he saw the kids. I scratch my head at people like your kid's bio. mom who seemed to be punishing THEM thru your husband...as well as by my son's ex. As I've often said, he is no angel, but she actually makes him seem like one, and he tries very hard to do what is right for his child. I give him THAT :) [/QUOTE]
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