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Just a bunch of questions this morning....paternity and child support
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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 605259" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>Actually visitation is not tied to child support and even if you arent paying you can be ordered visitation. That being said, I never said anyone should be jailed. I just think a person who tricks another into having a child they should bare the responsibility of their actions. Sure it may not be exactly fair to the child who may not have as much access to things as someone who is getting child support. I actually know a fair amount of people who dont use the child support for the purposes intended. Thats one of the reasons we - as the grandparents give things to our granddaughter because her father isnt under a child support order. He legally cannot be put under one. He gives a small amount when he can, more when he can, but that money is constantly wanted and needed when a certain type of activity is going on. I pay for gymnastics and her maternal side has never driven her there or back. Heck right now her mother gets out of work 45 minutes before the class ends and she only works about 5 minutes from the gym. She could come on that one day a week to watch her child and then take her home so I wouldnt have that drive back to take her home every night. I knew I would be doing it all going in though and dont mind it a bit. I want this for her. I also bought all her summer clothes and now almost 200 dollars in back to school clothes.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 605259, member: 1514"] Actually visitation is not tied to child support and even if you arent paying you can be ordered visitation. That being said, I never said anyone should be jailed. I just think a person who tricks another into having a child they should bare the responsibility of their actions. Sure it may not be exactly fair to the child who may not have as much access to things as someone who is getting child support. I actually know a fair amount of people who dont use the child support for the purposes intended. Thats one of the reasons we - as the grandparents give things to our granddaughter because her father isnt under a child support order. He legally cannot be put under one. He gives a small amount when he can, more when he can, but that money is constantly wanted and needed when a certain type of activity is going on. I pay for gymnastics and her maternal side has never driven her there or back. Heck right now her mother gets out of work 45 minutes before the class ends and she only works about 5 minutes from the gym. She could come on that one day a week to watch her child and then take her home so I wouldnt have that drive back to take her home every night. I knew I would be doing it all going in though and dont mind it a bit. I want this for her. I also bought all her summer clothes and now almost 200 dollars in back to school clothes. [/QUOTE]
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