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<blockquote data-quote="Big Bad Kitty" data-source="post: 83524" data-attributes="member: 3647"><p>Well, he finally called.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>There is quite a bit of truth to my suspicions. Not the jingle bells or anything, but you know... </p><p></p><p>His story was twofold. The new G/F was in the hospital with the flu. And of course he could not leave her side. I finally laid into him. I said that he really needed to start putting his daughter ahead of her. He quickly jumped to her defense, and said that I must hate myself to talk about someone like that. </p><p></p><p>I told him look, time to get real. I said that I know that the main reason that he stays there is that he has nowhere else to go. Which means he has to do as she says. And SHE needs him attached to her at all times. I called him on it. He can't make a call without her, he can't pick up his kids without her. (I know it sounds like I am whining but I have to get this out. Skip it if you don't want to read it) When he comes here to pick up/drop off Tink, he has to park his car blocking traffic so that she can watch to make sure that he does not enter my apartment. He has not seen his sons in over 6 months because his van broke. When he had the van, the whole family fit inside. When he had nothing but her car to drive, there was no room for him, her, Tink, the new baby, and his sons inside. No way was she staying home with the baby while he picked his sons up. So he stopped picking them up.</p><p></p><p>I told him that he was whipped and letting her run the show and he needed to put all his kids first. I corrected him and said that SHE was the one with the low self image who can't be without him for 2 seconds and that is HER problem.</p><p></p><p>He agreed with me! And then, he agreed with me. He pretty much has to do what she says.</p><p></p><p>On top of all this, his dad is in a nursing home. Cancer, and it is relentless. I love that man. Tink never knew him as fun, he's been sick since she has been coming around to see him. So Matt & his brothers are in a panic, and his mother is in denial and shock. The 28th, which is Tink's brother's birthday, is also the anniversary of Matt's brother passing. You can't make this stuff up. This is one screwed up, hurting family.</p><p></p><p>He bent my ear for 1/2 hour. I let him. He cried. I let him. He did talk to Tink. She is nowhere near as hurt as I was at the very idea of someone not wanting to talk to their own child.</p><p></p><p>He & I needed this talk. We are not in love anymore, but I think we are still soulmates.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Big Bad Kitty, post: 83524, member: 3647"] Well, he finally called. There is quite a bit of truth to my suspicions. Not the jingle bells or anything, but you know... His story was twofold. The new G/F was in the hospital with the flu. And of course he could not leave her side. I finally laid into him. I said that he really needed to start putting his daughter ahead of her. He quickly jumped to her defense, and said that I must hate myself to talk about someone like that. I told him look, time to get real. I said that I know that the main reason that he stays there is that he has nowhere else to go. Which means he has to do as she says. And SHE needs him attached to her at all times. I called him on it. He can't make a call without her, he can't pick up his kids without her. (I know it sounds like I am whining but I have to get this out. Skip it if you don't want to read it) When he comes here to pick up/drop off Tink, he has to park his car blocking traffic so that she can watch to make sure that he does not enter my apartment. He has not seen his sons in over 6 months because his van broke. When he had the van, the whole family fit inside. When he had nothing but her car to drive, there was no room for him, her, Tink, the new baby, and his sons inside. No way was she staying home with the baby while he picked his sons up. So he stopped picking them up. I told him that he was whipped and letting her run the show and he needed to put all his kids first. I corrected him and said that SHE was the one with the low self image who can't be without him for 2 seconds and that is HER problem. He agreed with me! And then, he agreed with me. He pretty much has to do what she says. On top of all this, his dad is in a nursing home. Cancer, and it is relentless. I love that man. Tink never knew him as fun, he's been sick since she has been coming around to see him. So Matt & his brothers are in a panic, and his mother is in denial and shock. The 28th, which is Tink's brother's birthday, is also the anniversary of Matt's brother passing. You can't make this stuff up. This is one screwed up, hurting family. He bent my ear for 1/2 hour. I let him. He cried. I let him. He did talk to Tink. She is nowhere near as hurt as I was at the very idea of someone not wanting to talk to their own child. He & I needed this talk. We are not in love anymore, but I think we are still soulmates. [/QUOTE]
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