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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 384664" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>Why do you think that? I can't believe DFS would take it serious if a sd called and said "the mom is a PITA because we don't know how to control her child". I mean really- what can they possibly accuse you of that would warrant a CPS investigation? If Wee had any injury, I think it would be obvious that someone at school who had no business trying to restrain him caused it. I think I'd tell a DSS worker that, too.</p><p></p><p>But don't listen to me- county people don't like me too much and you see where my son is.....</p><p></p><p>My son's issues started in elementary school too. They were ridiculous "complaints" about him at that point. The sd escalated things at a very bad time- when my son needed support, not humiliation and ridicule. I wish to God I had never fought it. I fought it because I believed I had a legal right to and that they wwere in the wrong. I still feel that way. But given that the harm to the child is the same either way...now I wish I had just moved- long before difficult child convinced himself that everything those teachers told him must be true. At the time I thought I couldn't afford to move- but I now have lost everything financially, am emotionally drained, and mentally barely moving forward. If I had it to do over again, I would have taken my son and gotten the heck out of there. The battle isn't worth the losing the bigger war of raising a difficult child who is also our offspring.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 384664, member: 3699"] Why do you think that? I can't believe DFS would take it serious if a sd called and said "the mom is a PITA because we don't know how to control her child". I mean really- what can they possibly accuse you of that would warrant a CPS investigation? If Wee had any injury, I think it would be obvious that someone at school who had no business trying to restrain him caused it. I think I'd tell a DSS worker that, too. But don't listen to me- county people don't like me too much and you see where my son is..... My son's issues started in elementary school too. They were ridiculous "complaints" about him at that point. The sd escalated things at a very bad time- when my son needed support, not humiliation and ridicule. I wish to God I had never fought it. I fought it because I believed I had a legal right to and that they wwere in the wrong. I still feel that way. But given that the harm to the child is the same either way...now I wish I had just moved- long before difficult child convinced himself that everything those teachers told him must be true. At the time I thought I couldn't afford to move- but I now have lost everything financially, am emotionally drained, and mentally barely moving forward. If I had it to do over again, I would have taken my son and gotten the heck out of there. The battle isn't worth the losing the bigger war of raising a difficult child who is also our offspring. [/QUOTE]
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