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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 192594" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>I must agree that these people are morons. While using less emotion in how you deal with your difficult child is often useful, flat out ignoring a rage is license to continue rages as often as you want because no one cares what you do when you rage. At least we had this experience. I can even remember Wiz laughing at a sw who told me to treat his rages this way. She was SHOCKED - and POSITIVE that he was kidding. I thought she was an idiot. I agreed to her face simply because I had challenged her idiotic, never-actually-lived-with-a-child-much-less-a-difficult child ideas in a previous meeting and it was a HUGE drama with her becoming convinced that I was my difficult child's main problem, NOT his skewed thinking. So I agreed to her face and told Wiz if he tried that **** when we were home his world would end. </p><p> </p><p>guess what? My way worked, eventually.</p><p> </p><p>Where do these people come from? Stupid therapists R us? I have become convinced that that is the name of the diploma mill that creates these individuals and hten sets them upon us hapless difficult child parents.</p><p> </p><p>sorry you had to listen to this crud. Ignore it. But NOT the raging difficult child.</p><p> </p><p>Susie</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 192594, member: 1233"] I must agree that these people are morons. While using less emotion in how you deal with your difficult child is often useful, flat out ignoring a rage is license to continue rages as often as you want because no one cares what you do when you rage. At least we had this experience. I can even remember Wiz laughing at a sw who told me to treat his rages this way. She was SHOCKED - and POSITIVE that he was kidding. I thought she was an idiot. I agreed to her face simply because I had challenged her idiotic, never-actually-lived-with-a-child-much-less-a-difficult child ideas in a previous meeting and it was a HUGE drama with her becoming convinced that I was my difficult child's main problem, NOT his skewed thinking. So I agreed to her face and told Wiz if he tried that **** when we were home his world would end. guess what? My way worked, eventually. Where do these people come from? Stupid therapists R us? I have become convinced that that is the name of the diploma mill that creates these individuals and hten sets them upon us hapless difficult child parents. sorry you had to listen to this crud. Ignore it. But NOT the raging difficult child. Susie [/QUOTE]
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