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Just need to get this off my chest - husband vent
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<blockquote data-quote="hearts and roses" data-source="post: 558992" data-attributes="member: 2211"><p>First, hugs...your frustration comes through loud and clear.</p><p></p><p>The bottom line is that you can't change him. Only he can change himself. All you can do is work on you and how you react or don't react. We all know this and it's easier said than done. </p><p></p><p>I'm not advocating that you leave the love if your life, but perhaps it would be the wake up call he needs to truly look at the way he's living and make some gradual changes in his lifestyle. After all these years, change won't come easy or quickly. </p><p></p><p>Maybe you could seek some support via alanon? Hugs to you...I get it.</p><p></p><p>Incidentally, your post has me thinking of a couple of bad habits I should work on.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearts and roses, post: 558992, member: 2211"] First, hugs...your frustration comes through loud and clear. The bottom line is that you can't change him. Only he can change himself. All you can do is work on you and how you react or don't react. We all know this and it's easier said than done. I'm not advocating that you leave the love if your life, but perhaps it would be the wake up call he needs to truly look at the way he's living and make some gradual changes in his lifestyle. After all these years, change won't come easy or quickly. Maybe you could seek some support via alanon? Hugs to you...I get it. Incidentally, your post has me thinking of a couple of bad habits I should work on. [/QUOTE]
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