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<blockquote data-quote="lovemysons" data-source="post: 610229" data-attributes="member: 3305"><p>I must be the weakest link. </p><p></p><p>I said I wasn't going to take anymore calls from difficult child and yet yesterday when he left 3 messages on my phone I finally took the 4th call. He is at a hospital AGAIN! This time claiming he can't urinate...says they are going to do a Cat Scan, I believe, on his back (can't do MRI because of his Pacemaker). Or, they are going to do a procedure that would basically be day surgery. </p><p>So here I am...back in the loop with difficult child. </p><p></p><p>difficult child also claims that he spoke with a psychiatrist in this new hospital. Told him his life story etc. He said asked the Dr what was wrong with him and the Dr said..."You have something that no pill can cure, a personality disorder, you need to see a therapist once a week and talk about your problems, what does and doesn't work in your life, grow up and get on your feet." difficult child said this gave him some hope actually...that he "has something that no pill can fix". </p><p></p><p>I think difficult child wants me to come see him at the hospital. My car is not working at the moment so I would be dependent on husband when he gets home from work and then bowling...as husband is still the head bowling coach for highschoolers. </p><p></p><p>I don't know what is going to happen next. He keeps upping the ante. </p><p>husband says it's like our oldest was when we were first trying to break him from sleeping in our bed as a toddler. He is banging on the crib, screaming, DEMANDING, that we continue on as we have. </p><p></p><p>I know I need to be stronger. I wish I wasn't always the one difficult child leans on. </p><p>I still feel weak and very emotional since the procedure...really the day before of the procedure. </p><p></p><p>difficult child will be 25 in 4 months. </p><p>How much longer can this craziness go on? I need to make this stop. </p><p>I am afraid of the "bottom". I am afraid it will mean death. I have got to stop projecting the worst. </p><p></p><p>LMS</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="lovemysons, post: 610229, member: 3305"] I must be the weakest link. I said I wasn't going to take anymore calls from difficult child and yet yesterday when he left 3 messages on my phone I finally took the 4th call. He is at a hospital AGAIN! This time claiming he can't urinate...says they are going to do a Cat Scan, I believe, on his back (can't do MRI because of his Pacemaker). Or, they are going to do a procedure that would basically be day surgery. So here I am...back in the loop with difficult child. difficult child also claims that he spoke with a psychiatrist in this new hospital. Told him his life story etc. He said asked the Dr what was wrong with him and the Dr said..."You have something that no pill can cure, a personality disorder, you need to see a therapist once a week and talk about your problems, what does and doesn't work in your life, grow up and get on your feet." difficult child said this gave him some hope actually...that he "has something that no pill can fix". I think difficult child wants me to come see him at the hospital. My car is not working at the moment so I would be dependent on husband when he gets home from work and then bowling...as husband is still the head bowling coach for highschoolers. I don't know what is going to happen next. He keeps upping the ante. husband says it's like our oldest was when we were first trying to break him from sleeping in our bed as a toddler. He is banging on the crib, screaming, DEMANDING, that we continue on as we have. I know I need to be stronger. I wish I wasn't always the one difficult child leans on. I still feel weak and very emotional since the procedure...really the day before of the procedure. difficult child will be 25 in 4 months. How much longer can this craziness go on? I need to make this stop. I am afraid of the "bottom". I am afraid it will mean death. I have got to stop projecting the worst. LMS [/QUOTE]
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