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<blockquote data-quote="lovemysons" data-source="post: 171025" data-attributes="member: 3305"><p>Hi Katya, </p><p></p><p>Uhg...your son's story sounds familiar, my young difficult child, now in the US Army acted much the same with me, blaming me, being disrespectful and rude. I think you are SO right that it is all designed to make you the bad guy and his reason for using. An addict will certainly come up with all sorts of justifications. </p><p></p><p>I think getting rid of the alcohol in the house is a good idea. </p><p>Good for you for getting difficult child into outpatient rehab. You are facing his problems rather he is or not. </p><p></p><p>I wish I could tell you that at some point they get more respectful and accept total responsibility for the direction of their lives but we are STILL wrestling with that one with our 19 yr old...who has a wife and baby! He still is blaming everyone else for the decisons that HE made....so sad. </p><p></p><p>Just thinking of you and hoping your husband really does get to spend more time dealing with your difficult child. </p><p></p><p>Hugs, </p><p>lovemysons</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="lovemysons, post: 171025, member: 3305"] Hi Katya, Uhg...your son's story sounds familiar, my young difficult child, now in the US Army acted much the same with me, blaming me, being disrespectful and rude. I think you are SO right that it is all designed to make you the bad guy and his reason for using. An addict will certainly come up with all sorts of justifications. I think getting rid of the alcohol in the house is a good idea. Good for you for getting difficult child into outpatient rehab. You are facing his problems rather he is or not. I wish I could tell you that at some point they get more respectful and accept total responsibility for the direction of their lives but we are STILL wrestling with that one with our 19 yr old...who has a wife and baby! He still is blaming everyone else for the decisons that HE made....so sad. Just thinking of you and hoping your husband really does get to spend more time dealing with your difficult child. Hugs, lovemysons [/QUOTE]
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