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<blockquote data-quote="Shari" data-source="post: 239456" data-attributes="member: 1848"><p>If you don't get a list, make one, write it down, nicely, and write a little paragraph before it that says "per our conversation on Jan 29, this is what I understand your suggestions are, please contact me if this is not correct" and send her a copy via email, certified letter, however you can to have proof that you got it to her. Then the ball is in her court - either what she said is correct, or its on her to correct it with you.</p><p> </p><p>Get it in black and white and put the burden on her to correct the list if it doesn't say what she wants. If she's smart and realizes you are playing the paper trail game, she'll start doing things that might be helpful. If she's not so smart (as I'm guessing is the case), she'll let it sit unanswered, and you get to go to the judge with a crazy list of her demands and proof (via non-response) that she told you to do this.</p><p> </p><p>Better than he said/she said.</p><p> </p><p>Otherwise, your story amazes me. Hang in there. It has to get better.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Shari, post: 239456, member: 1848"] If you don't get a list, make one, write it down, nicely, and write a little paragraph before it that says "per our conversation on Jan 29, this is what I understand your suggestions are, please contact me if this is not correct" and send her a copy via email, certified letter, however you can to have proof that you got it to her. Then the ball is in her court - either what she said is correct, or its on her to correct it with you. Get it in black and white and put the burden on her to correct the list if it doesn't say what she wants. If she's smart and realizes you are playing the paper trail game, she'll start doing things that might be helpful. If she's not so smart (as I'm guessing is the case), she'll let it sit unanswered, and you get to go to the judge with a crazy list of her demands and proof (via non-response) that she told you to do this. Better than he said/she said. Otherwise, your story amazes me. Hang in there. It has to get better. [/QUOTE]
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