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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 239654" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>Here's the cincher- one- not all cinchers- the psychiatrist on the MDE said difficult child's big trigger was treating him like a behavior problem (because that reinforces the bad feelings about himself- this is specific to his own issues about his father) and therefore, behavior modification was not recommended for him- cognitive behavioral therapy and psychoeducational therapy is. When she said that, it all fit into place- every time I tried behavior mod before- contracts, etc, at home, with tdocs or when they tried it at school, difficult child got worse. She said that is why.</p><p></p><p>Rope- could you insert some spaces between paragraphs so I could read your posts? Sorry, but my eyes aren't so good. I did catch one thing- about making difficult child go to bed or something. I cannot make my son stay in bed. I can't lock a room up. I can't make my son stay in one room. Rewards and consequences/punishments do not work when he is cycling. When he's not cycling, we have minimal behavioral issues and no behavior mod is needed- typical allowance system and normal house rules work fine. When my son is cycling, he is like an extremely stoned addict. Can you "force" them to do anything if you are not a policeman or medical staff? No, but it isn't a (street) drug issue- my son has been tested many times- including at psychiatric hospital- and they have always been negative. Now, if they have been compliant with medications and treatment, how much do you punish them after the "episode" for what they did during it?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 239654, member: 3699"] Here's the cincher- one- not all cinchers- the psychiatrist on the MDE said difficult child's big trigger was treating him like a behavior problem (because that reinforces the bad feelings about himself- this is specific to his own issues about his father) and therefore, behavior modification was not recommended for him- cognitive behavioral therapy and psychoeducational therapy is. When she said that, it all fit into place- every time I tried behavior mod before- contracts, etc, at home, with tdocs or when they tried it at school, difficult child got worse. She said that is why. Rope- could you insert some spaces between paragraphs so I could read your posts? Sorry, but my eyes aren't so good. I did catch one thing- about making difficult child go to bed or something. I cannot make my son stay in bed. I can't lock a room up. I can't make my son stay in one room. Rewards and consequences/punishments do not work when he is cycling. When he's not cycling, we have minimal behavioral issues and no behavior mod is needed- typical allowance system and normal house rules work fine. When my son is cycling, he is like an extremely stoned addict. Can you "force" them to do anything if you are not a policeman or medical staff? No, but it isn't a (street) drug issue- my son has been tested many times- including at psychiatric hospital- and they have always been negative. Now, if they have been compliant with medications and treatment, how much do you punish them after the "episode" for what they did during it? [/QUOTE]
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