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Just stunned by my husband.
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<blockquote data-quote="Shari" data-source="post: 134494" data-attributes="member: 1848"><p>Susie, I am glad husband will go to counseling. It sounds very much needed, even if its reluctant, maybe something will get thru.</p><p> </p><p>Ya know, I'm not sure this is relevant, but it pops to mind...when difficult child 1 was younger, and his take on reality and fairness askew, he would often go to grandma and complain. Particularly about me and how mean I was to him. Grandma would listen to him. She wouldn't agree, because she knew his take was skewed, but she didn't say anything to the contrary, either.</p><p> </p><p>This went on for some time and difficult child started telling me that grandma was agreeing with him. At first I thought he was lying. Then I finally figured out that grandma's silence, to him, meant she didn't disagree. </p><p> </p><p>I hope this works out for you. Many, many hugs.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Shari, post: 134494, member: 1848"] Susie, I am glad husband will go to counseling. It sounds very much needed, even if its reluctant, maybe something will get thru. Ya know, I'm not sure this is relevant, but it pops to mind...when difficult child 1 was younger, and his take on reality and fairness askew, he would often go to grandma and complain. Particularly about me and how mean I was to him. Grandma would listen to him. She wouldn't agree, because she knew his take was skewed, but she didn't say anything to the contrary, either. This went on for some time and difficult child started telling me that grandma was agreeing with him. At first I thought he was lying. Then I finally figured out that grandma's silence, to him, meant she didn't disagree. I hope this works out for you. Many, many hugs. [/QUOTE]
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