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<blockquote data-quote="Fran" data-source="post: 168872" data-attributes="member: 3"><p>Steely, what's the alternative to living a life with a moral compass and integrity? You either are or aren't trying to do the right things. Sometimes we fail at making the better judgment but most humans try. </p><p>Your sadness is all around you. Your disappointment is loud and clear. Your pain is very raw. It is not a good time to make assumptions about how the rest of the world doesn't have what you think they should such as an employer or parents or H's friends. Your vision and judgment may be clouded by the sadness that overlays it. </p><p>It's just money but it isn't. It's food, house, car, clothes and security. Don't think for a second that being self supporting doesn't affect self esteem. If this job doesn't pan out then you may have to look for another. In between you can see how others deal with the work woes. It may give you a different insight. </p><p>I truthfully don't understand the friend or your parents who say they don't want to see you or have you involved. I was pretty surprised when your parents said that during the search for H. Either they are incredibly insensitive or are you projecting some sort of negativity? You never struck me as being an offensive person so I'm assuming they aren't as loving as they could be. </p><p></p><p>The search for finding me is really a search for how "me" fits into the next chapter of your life. What you thought of a moral compass may be shaped a little differently. </p><p></p><p>I may be wrong but I get the feeling you are terribly lonely. You seem somewhat isolated. I hope things improve for you and you like the "me" that has evolved from the pain and angst. </p><p></p><p>Many hugs. There was a time when I hit rock bottom. I tend to internalize my criticism. It hurts me to look into that mirror but honesty and even pain is the only way that we move forward on this road.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Fran, post: 168872, member: 3"] Steely, what's the alternative to living a life with a moral compass and integrity? You either are or aren't trying to do the right things. Sometimes we fail at making the better judgment but most humans try. Your sadness is all around you. Your disappointment is loud and clear. Your pain is very raw. It is not a good time to make assumptions about how the rest of the world doesn't have what you think they should such as an employer or parents or H's friends. Your vision and judgment may be clouded by the sadness that overlays it. It's just money but it isn't. It's food, house, car, clothes and security. Don't think for a second that being self supporting doesn't affect self esteem. If this job doesn't pan out then you may have to look for another. In between you can see how others deal with the work woes. It may give you a different insight. I truthfully don't understand the friend or your parents who say they don't want to see you or have you involved. I was pretty surprised when your parents said that during the search for H. Either they are incredibly insensitive or are you projecting some sort of negativity? You never struck me as being an offensive person so I'm assuming they aren't as loving as they could be. The search for finding me is really a search for how "me" fits into the next chapter of your life. What you thought of a moral compass may be shaped a little differently. I may be wrong but I get the feeling you are terribly lonely. You seem somewhat isolated. I hope things improve for you and you like the "me" that has evolved from the pain and angst. Many hugs. There was a time when I hit rock bottom. I tend to internalize my criticism. It hurts me to look into that mirror but honesty and even pain is the only way that we move forward on this road. [/QUOTE]
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