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<blockquote data-quote="Shari" data-source="post: 409479" data-attributes="member: 1848"><p>I don't think he'd contest it one bit. It just has to go through court to be legal. I am thinking I won't have him served...maybe exMIL would agree to give him the papers and explain to him the reasons for the change. The only time he'll care is that initial shock factor...he may rant and rave and carry on, but its highly unlikely to go anywhere past that, especially if exMIL talks him down, which she can and will.</p><p>I have occassionally ticked him off in the past few years, and he's gone to the local attorney and ranted to him a couple of times, but has never done anything more than the initial rant session. I don't expect this to be any different. </p><p>Plus, he owes almost 9 years of child support that incurring interest at 9%. That will quickly dampen any hair brained idea he gets, 'cause he doesn't want to pay that.</p><p>But the key to that is *think*. I don't think he'll do anything. But its kinda like poking an old dog with a sharp stick...there's always that chance. But, as exMIL said last night when I said "I don't know if I want to rock the boat" she said "Maybe you need to look at is as stabilizing someone else's boat. Someone with their whole life ahead of them." Good point, exMIL.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Shari, post: 409479, member: 1848"] I don't think he'd contest it one bit. It just has to go through court to be legal. I am thinking I won't have him served...maybe exMIL would agree to give him the papers and explain to him the reasons for the change. The only time he'll care is that initial shock factor...he may rant and rave and carry on, but its highly unlikely to go anywhere past that, especially if exMIL talks him down, which she can and will. I have occassionally ticked him off in the past few years, and he's gone to the local attorney and ranted to him a couple of times, but has never done anything more than the initial rant session. I don't expect this to be any different. Plus, he owes almost 9 years of child support that incurring interest at 9%. That will quickly dampen any hair brained idea he gets, 'cause he doesn't want to pay that. But the key to that is *think*. I don't think he'll do anything. But its kinda like poking an old dog with a sharp stick...there's always that chance. But, as exMIL said last night when I said "I don't know if I want to rock the boat" she said "Maybe you need to look at is as stabilizing someone else's boat. Someone with their whole life ahead of them." Good point, exMIL. [/QUOTE]
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