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<blockquote data-quote="Autismkids" data-source="post: 361344" data-attributes="member: 8756"><p>I have not been keeping up with Kanga's problems 100% so I could be totally off base here.</p><p> </p><p>Has anyone tried giving her serious sex education? I mean all the inner workings of the body, what exactly an orgasm is, how to have sex safely, talked about her fantasies?</p><p> </p><p>Was she abused or raped at any point? Even if she did like it, it was still rape (IF she were ever taken advantage of). I have no idea about numbers or statistics, but I know some woman report having an orgasm during rape. There are also women who have rape fantasies.</p><p> </p><p>Does she masturbate? Has she had an orgasm?</p><p> </p><p>I'm sort of comparing her to myself when I started having sex. I lost my virginity around 13 and have been with many, many, many guys. I didn't have an orgasm until I was 22. My best guess is that I was having sex with multiple guys because none of them were really "good." </p><p> </p><p>I'm pretty sure I wasn't trying to "keep" a guy around with sex; I was simply doing it because I could. I loved that if I saw a guy I wanted to have sex with, it WOULD happen. I also (still) keep sex and love/relationships separate. I've been told that it can't be done, but it sure can be! Once I had sex with my boss, just to be able to say that I did my boss. Another guy had a penis as big as a standard remote; I had to try him!</p><p> </p><p>There's also the fact that the brain doesn't stop maturing until around 25 years old. I can honestly say that it's like a switch was flipped for me between 25 and 26, and *now* I can finally see why my actions were completely out there. When I was 16, I was dating a 33 year old man and saw nothing wrong with it. Looking back at it, I cannot believe my father allowed it to happen!</p><p> </p><p>There was no way anyone was going to stop me. But as I got older and educated myself, I became safer and no longer put myself in crazy situations. I've also slowed down as well and have not been with anyone since 2008. I do have a gorgeous physical therapist, but I'm not pushing it because I like the "what if" fantasy right now. </p><p> </p><p>Is she bipolar? That can cause increased sexual activity as well.</p><p> </p><p>I guess I threw all this out there, because I can sort of see her side. I never would have tried to get it on during class, but I have had sex with a guy while other people were in the room; some playing video games, some having sex, some watching.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Autismkids, post: 361344, member: 8756"] I have not been keeping up with Kanga's problems 100% so I could be totally off base here. Has anyone tried giving her serious sex education? I mean all the inner workings of the body, what exactly an orgasm is, how to have sex safely, talked about her fantasies? Was she abused or raped at any point? Even if she did like it, it was still rape (IF she were ever taken advantage of). I have no idea about numbers or statistics, but I know some woman report having an orgasm during rape. There are also women who have rape fantasies. Does she masturbate? Has she had an orgasm? I'm sort of comparing her to myself when I started having sex. I lost my virginity around 13 and have been with many, many, many guys. I didn't have an orgasm until I was 22. My best guess is that I was having sex with multiple guys because none of them were really "good." I'm pretty sure I wasn't trying to "keep" a guy around with sex; I was simply doing it because I could. I loved that if I saw a guy I wanted to have sex with, it WOULD happen. I also (still) keep sex and love/relationships separate. I've been told that it can't be done, but it sure can be! Once I had sex with my boss, just to be able to say that I did my boss. Another guy had a penis as big as a standard remote; I had to try him! There's also the fact that the brain doesn't stop maturing until around 25 years old. I can honestly say that it's like a switch was flipped for me between 25 and 26, and *now* I can finally see why my actions were completely out there. When I was 16, I was dating a 33 year old man and saw nothing wrong with it. Looking back at it, I cannot believe my father allowed it to happen! There was no way anyone was going to stop me. But as I got older and educated myself, I became safer and no longer put myself in crazy situations. I've also slowed down as well and have not been with anyone since 2008. I do have a gorgeous physical therapist, but I'm not pushing it because I like the "what if" fantasy right now. Is she bipolar? That can cause increased sexual activity as well. I guess I threw all this out there, because I can sort of see her side. I never would have tried to get it on during class, but I have had sex with a guy while other people were in the room; some playing video games, some having sex, some watching. [/QUOTE]
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