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Kate said something that makes no sense to me. Help me figure this out
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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 9456" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) can have many faces. It might be that.</p><p></p><p>It also might be that she really feels that she unworthy of a good life. That she has to do "bad" things or make poor choices because she doesn't deserve happiness. </p><p></p><p>We had quite a long time with B where any positive remark of ANY kind made him act out. The pressure of behaving well was something he couldn't cope with. It seemed to be that each positive thing he did built up this huge pressure to be perfect, so he would do negative things so he didn't feel the pressure. This wasn't pressure from us, but from himself. The feeling that he didn't deserve anything good was all internal, NONE of us treated him this way.</p><p></p><p>Does this help? </p><p></p><p>Susie</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 9456, member: 1233"] Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) can have many faces. It might be that. It also might be that she really feels that she unworthy of a good life. That she has to do "bad" things or make poor choices because she doesn't deserve happiness. We had quite a long time with B where any positive remark of ANY kind made him act out. The pressure of behaving well was something he couldn't cope with. It seemed to be that each positive thing he did built up this huge pressure to be perfect, so he would do negative things so he didn't feel the pressure. This wasn't pressure from us, but from himself. The feeling that he didn't deserve anything good was all internal, NONE of us treated him this way. Does this help? Susie [/QUOTE]
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